OMG....I hit a deer last night!

Break up with the idiot.  He cares more about money than he does you.

Ahhh.. thats so umm not nice! But i think he's just over reacting a little, when he comes down things should get better, if not then its up to you to fix it or do whatever you think is right.

tan wrote:

Uuuh    when I read the title I wanted to give you some nice deer-recipes 
... But now I rather think of something like
"the best way to BBQ your boyfriend -do it delicious and deescret"   

- First, I am really glad nothing serious has happened to you..
Second, don´t get sad about your boyfriend, because obviously he is being a jerk?! I don´t know about you, but if I break something ( and I do a lot), I get it fixed because it was my fault... most people think so, especially if they break something of somebody the like/love, don´t they? 
So there would be no need to yell at you, especially when you probably were still shaking...    Is the damage that bad? - No, wait, even if it was crashed, he should first worry about you, then the car and totally not threatening you to break up with you...
I don´t know how long you have been together and how deep your relationship is, but sorry, this just does not sound right to me if he truly cared for you?

well i only hit the deer in the head at 35 mph and broke out the head light and pinched the frame.....but we have been together for 3 years and have one child together

You boyfriend seems to be an money obsessed idiot. (Well, his action was) Sorry if it's not so.
Seriously - you should talk to him. You have a good reason being hurt, no caring and loving boyfriend would say that its over if you don't fix his car and especially don't care that you might not be ok, I mean, that's the FIRST thing a boyfriend should be concerned about - you! I'm glad your ok.

Last edited by LilCuteBimb (10-12-2008 16:01)

I'm shocked, by his reaction.  I was in My truck,  and hit a Cow, at 75 MPH, driven by my boyfriend.  We were lucky,  and guess what?  He didn't pay for nothing,  and I didn't even ask.  I was so lucky to be alive,  and his only concern,  was not making it to the next town, to get a bite to eat.  I did the right thing.  The curb is not just for parking,  but great for Bums too. Men, are selfish, and few think behond the damage, that they suffer.  I lost $65,000 to learn a lesson.  Good luck...
( Ps  that was the second vehicle,  he totaled of, mine)

Your boyfriend might be stressed out about other issues like work or his family or whatever so he could be taking his anger out on you. Which of course is 100% NOT okay.
You should have a quiet, calm discussion together about the car.

I hope you're okay. I mean it must have been awful to hit that deer and then to get shouted at.
There's nothing you can do, it was an accident. xx

I hit a deer once and my insurance agent kept asking me if i went off the road at all, hit a mailbox, hit anything else, etc. When I told him that i just hit the deer (also at 35 mph) he said that that was considered an "act of god" and I was fully covered with no increase in premium. If i had hit a mailbox to avoid the deer it would have been an accident would have gone against my record. As long as you just hit the deer insurance should cover it without it increasing your rates so just let them pay for it. As for the bf, I agree with MysteriaKiito. This isn't the first time you have questioned his feeling for you.

I am glad you are okay. Many people hav been seriously maime or killed from hitting a deer as for your boyfriend I am with  the majority  get rid of him as it is obvious  that he could careless about  you and only gives a rats a** about money.If my hubby hit a deer my primary concern would be him not the car or the insurance premium. acts of god are generally covered  with no increase in premium of the insurance. so let your insurance pay for the car! too bad insurance can't get your boyfriend a heart and a brain .

DISAYA wrote:

I hit a deer once and my insurance agent kept asking me if i went off the road at all, hit a mailbox, hit anything else, etc. When I told him that i just hit the deer (also at 35 mph) he said that that was considered an "act of god" and I was fully covered with no increase in premium.

Yep, its not your fault one little bit a deer ran in front of your truck. I had a deer coming running right at my car once, the "dumb' thing just kept on coming and I was able to switch lanes and give it some gas and the deer ran in to the back of my car by the trunk. Poor thing was OK I believe. It sat down like and I pulled over and it was long gone.

Your BF got some problems....too bad he wasn't driving, then he might have seen it wasn't the drivers fault....too bad you have a child with him. I mean for the child its good to have two loving parents but this guy isn't a lover, hes a bully and cold hearted too.

Kronia wrote:

Kronia wrote:

If Sarah Palin was VP, she would've shot the deer from a helicopter before it got anywhere near the road.

What, no laughs?  *grumbles* Tough crowd!   

Edit:  please no one make fun of my need to fish for compliments!

I lol'ed.

break up with the fool
your way to good for him xxx

wow your boyfriend sounds like a jerk (no offense)

thats sad about the deer...my sister hit one a few years ago. I'm glad you are okay!