
It can be many things, sometimes periods just do skip a month. Also, sounds like you're going through a stressful time i.e anorexia recently and that can also stop your periods.
Though to be sure, i'd go see your doctor about it.
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cherry86 wrote:
I'm a normal weight, on the pill and have sex with my live-in boyfriend often. My period is sometimes two weeks late. My friends had lots of scares when we were in highschool. we would go in a group, like 3 or 4 people, to the drug store and buy poster board, markers and a pregnancy test, sometimes condoms too. then we would tell the person at the counter that we were doing a school project and was there anything else they though we would need to show how to prevent pregnancy and what to do in case of pregnancy.. etc. usually they would say something along the lines of "wow, what a great project! have you thought about showing other kinds of BC other than the pill and condoms?" etc etc, and we would chat and leave.
you'll be ready for your next posterboard project, annnnd have what you need.
good luck!
What a great idea!
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cherry86 wrote:
I'm a normal weight, on the pill and have sex with my live-in boyfriend often. My period is sometimes two weeks late. My friends had lots of scares when we were in highschool. we would go in a group, like 3 or 4 people, to the drug store and buy poster board, markers and a pregnancy test, sometimes condoms too. then we would tell the person at the counter that we were doing a school project and was there anything else they though we would need to show how to prevent pregnancy and what to do in case of pregnancy.. etc. usually they would say something along the lines of "wow, what a great project! have you thought about showing other kinds of BC other than the pill and condoms?" etc etc, and we would chat and leave.
you'll be ready for your next posterboard project, annnnd have what you need.
good luck!
This is great! i might try this actually, a good idea. thankyou 

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Cherry86's idea about the school project is a good one 
I'll try to ease your mind a little more too, because if you used contraception you're probably not pregnant. I'm assuming you haven't been having sex for very long, well I had not one but two pregnancy scares in the year after I first had sex. I don't know for certain but I was told it's actually fairly common if you've recently started having sex for it to mess up your periods a little. I don't know why this would be, but yeah, it happened to me twice, my period was about 10-12 days late both times.
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If your period comes- for god's sakes, STOP SLEEPING WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND!!!!! You hopefully can see that you are too young to deal with the potential repercussions that come with sex. So stop it! You have too much to lose from continuing, and everything to gin from stopping. Hopefully one of them will be better mental health (get some help for the anorexia! Sex will just aggravate those already pre-existing mental issues of yours). Get yourself healthy first, then worry about "pleasing" him.
I just want to say that I don't agree with this at all. I think if you are enjoying sex and you're not just doing it because you feel like you should be, then why the heck not. Just make sure you always take all the precautions. If I had had my first boyfriend when I was 15 instead of 16 I would probably still have slept with him even though I was still below the age of consent, so I don't think it's right to preach to you just because you are younger than I am now!

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I suggest you buy a pregnancy test to find out for sure the best one to buy is ept
early response it can predict if you are pregant a week before your due period.


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micillina wrote:
I suggest you buy a pregnancy test to find out for sure the best one to buy is ept
early response it can predict if you are pregant a week before your due period.
Do your consumer reports search, not just watch the commercials. D;
They found that First Response is the most likely to accurately detect the pregnancy hormones at low levels than any other.

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could just be a cycle change....... happens all the time

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The whole anorexia thing is tricky, but I mean if Victoria beckham can pop out 3 kids and be anorexic than anything is possible. Sorry not trying to make a joke out of this, id be really scared in that situation too. I think you should just wait a few days, then if you still havent gotten your period you should see your doctor. But take a pregnancy test in the meantime.
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Im glad your anorexia is getting better (you did say that right). And just remember, if you did get pregnant there are many options you could take. You could have an abortion (my least favorite option), adoption (may be hard to go through with but it helps) or you keep it.
I know your 15 and you dont want to get pregnant but if your having sex with your boyfriend, you kinda have to think about these things if you think you might be pregnant
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could just be a cycle change....... happens all the time
And i honestly never knew that... I dont know why i didnt know that but yeah
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Thankyou for all your great advice. My period still hasn't come, and it is now over a week late, so i will be going to buy a pregnancy test with my best friend tomorrow after school. I told her because i really needed someone to come with me, if i went on my own then i guess i'd just walk in the shop and walk straight out again because i wouldn't have the nerve to do it. Luckily, she understands where i'm coming from, and she's supportive of me. again, thankyou for all your advice, it's been a great help.

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you can go to a woman's clinic, the test is free and you get the results quick.. just another alternative if you dont want to go in a store

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good luck babycakes hope it's negative xx

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good luck with the pregnancy test
and at least you have your best friend there with you for support
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Good luck with the test, I'm always taking tests, and I always come on straight after I see the negative result, so don't worry too much!
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cherry86 wrote:
My friends had lots of scares when we were in highschool. we would go in a group, like 3 or 4 people, to the drug store and buy poster board, markers and a pregnancy test, sometimes condoms too. then we would tell the person at the counter that we were doing a school project and was there anything else they though we would need to show how to prevent pregnancy and what to do in case of pregnancy.. etc. usually they would say something along the lines of "wow, what a great project! have you thought about showing other kinds of BC other than the pill and condoms?" etc etc, and we would chat and leave.
you'll be ready for your next posterboard project, annnnd have what you need.
good luck!
No offense, but if you can't go buy condems or a pregnancy test, then you aren't mature enough to be engaging in any type of sex to begin with. Just like the saying,"If you can't talk about it, you shouldn't be doing it." I'm not judging, but am just giving advice that in the future, this is stuff that needs to be thought about. There are certain responsibilities that come with sex and if you can't handle them.... if you're too embarassed to follow through with them... then you just aren't at the maturity level to be engaging in the activity.
For the babies sake, I hope you aren't pregnant. In all likelihood, you aren't, but the more you stress out, the more late your period is going to be. Your body is extremely unstable due to the anorexia and now with all of the added stress of thinking you may be pregnant and the stress of having sex for the first time, it is screwing up your body worse. However, most good pregnancy tests now can register if you are pregnant or not 5 days before your period is late. Not after it's already late, but 5 days before. So, if you are already late, a good one will have no problem registering. Also, I would recommend one that is digital (i.e. says yes/no or pregnant/not pregnant) because those are a little less likely to give unclear results as the ones with just the lines or colored lines are.
Good luck, and I really do hope that you will show the maturity to take a hiatus from sex to get your anorexia better under control. I have battled ED's for roughly 12 years, and when I was younger, I couldn't imagine trying to handle sex and my ED. If you would ever like to talk about either, please feel free to pm me. I am always an open book with my own experiences. Good luck sweetie.
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I'm hoping for a negative for you! How'd it go?
I know someone has already said that if you're too embarrassed to buy condoms/pregnancy tests then you shouldn't be having sex, but i'm 24 and always feel a little bit that way, cause I always end up with the old lady at the drugstore who gives me a dirty look lol
I just make the bf get them. I think in some manly way he's proud to walk through the store with his condoms...haha
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your anorexic, having sex and 15. im sorry you could be pregnant but if you are then sort yourself out first before making any quick decisions.
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If you are pregnant, there are options...no matter what you do, you wont be the first (or last).
If you are stuggling with anorexia, chances are that you may not even be able to support a pregnancy to term, even if you are at a healthy weight today.
I will not judge you for having sex at 15. I was 15 the first time I did, and I felt comfortable in my choice...he was older (24), and THAT was the problem for me, since after, he felt like I was supposed to be HIS forever, and I eventually matured beyond him. Good luck to you.
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Did you find out??
Are you pregnant??
I was sat wondering all day lol
Sounds kinda odd and weird and kinda creepy
But i didnt have anything to do, and I had too much time to think about things lol
So do you know?
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when you think your preg you get really stressed and it can delay for period, well that what happened to me.
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Sweety, if you have decided that you are adult enough to start your sex life, then deal with it like an adult - there is no excuse for not doing so.
Go to a doctor and get your test done there. Check up on your "intimate health" every 6 months. Educate yourself (and, no, game website might not be the right place to start
, I mean books, concelours and doctors).
If you can't deal with those things, then... hm? are you realy sure you are ready to have a sex life?
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well my initial test was negative, yet still no period. I'm going to test next week just to be sure. I'm still not 100% positive, there's a little voice in my head telling me something wasn't quite right. but thankyou for all your really good advice, it means a lot 

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Aww. Well i hope every things turns out ok next week. Stay positive. 
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xBabycakes wrote:
well my initial test was negative, yet still no period. I'm going to test next week just to be sure. I'm still not 100% positive, there's a little voice in my head telling me something wasn't quite right. but thankyou for all your really good advice, it means a lot
make sure you get a good test and how old are you?
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