kinda important, i need opinions!

Im not one anyone's side, I guess it happened what it was supposed to happen. Probably bad timing for the relationships, thats all.
I guess it all developed from Garrets attitude (making out but no talking afterwards, thats weird for me), so there was no way that Nicole could know wha he was feeling

Both sides are at fault. Both should just walk away and move on.

HairyToes wrote:

Both sides are at fault. Both should just walk away and move on.

totally would except.... it's kinda hard when those two people just happen to see eachother everyday. even with all the ignoring and stuff it's still akward...and i HATE akwardness!

Well, I'm not taking sides, 'cause, at first, I really tought garret was a bit of a jerk,like "oh, I like you" and aftr that he went all "I don't want a relationship",but I also see some of nicole mistakes. But it doesn't really matter, 'cause, honestly I guess they both were a lot less mature by the time it all started - at least, garret was (for not been so experienced and all). But, instead of comenting what side I take, could make a little interpretation of garret's personality? Of courseI could be totally wrong, not knowing him and all,but look:

Some people - and garret sounds like one of them - are,above all things, so insecure that they seek love and aceptance and all that more desperately than anyone('cause we all do, right?). But all their fear of rejection and insecurities make them have some sort of thoughts like "I can't like someone, I'll get hurt"/"I should not start something if I know it will end badly" and all that, right? Problem is, eventhought these people actually think like this, they're also hoping - very strongly- that the person that they like will not react as they expect. For instance:

"I can't have a girlfriend"

he thinks you'll say: "all right", but he's hoping you'll say: "Oh, but I promiss I'll never ever hurt you! Let's be together!"

Do you get me? I say these things 'cause I think I'm a lot like that. It doesn't make him right, truth is, no one can pick things in the air like this - we can't just notice when they're trying to be saved, right?

But those feelings, I guess, are long gone. He might be a lot more mature now - once he had a real relationship and stuff - and I guess the only reason that really hurt him is that Adam was a friend, maybe. Or maybe he tought you "moved on too fast" - not nicole's fault, just something he might have tought and made him feel less special.


Anyway, by this time, it doesn't really matter who did what to who and why, but I don't think you should help him right now. You see, it's clear for me that you still have feelings for him, even if it's just anger, it's keeping you from moving on and - right now - he's problably feeling bad and weak and lonely and you been there would make everything more confusing and hurtful - for both of you.

Unless, of course,you really decide to fight for garret and try to be with him, giving up Adam and trying to deal with his personality and the fact that,right now, he's suffering over another girl, wich, by the way, could possibly mean that he won't want to have a girlfriend (nor a relationship) for a long while.

And it would start things all over. But, whatever you decide, just take the chance.

I guess I wrote a lot of crap and totally got some words wrong - but, sorry, anyway. Hope I could help. :~D

Last edited by tathu (08-18-2008 00:29)

What does it sound like to me???????  Like I am hella glad to be out of high school!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol