I need some advice from a guy....

im confused. you said you broke up with him because he didnt spend enough time with you but then later you said that you guys are constantly hanging out and he never sees his girlfriend.

Miss Kristen wrote:

i would do that.... i if i had any friends

Well I'm in the same "boat"...have few close friends cause they have gone and gotten married or are working alot and then need to take care of stuff on their time off. I'm a guy-it might help-but I run off on my own out of town and still hit a nightclub, meet new people--sometimes I see somebody I met before months ago--sometimes not.

This guy is laughing his butt off you!....One day you might flip out at him and might even hurt him but its YOUR fault...Your too hung up on him...surely if I can travel hours away on my own and still have some fun and met a few gals, you could as well...maybe even in your area--mine's OK but I have a pool and stuff to do and I don't know, just am too lazy to run out--besides I'm happy so I have little reason to change.

You seem unhappy--so you need to change for your own good. Join a dating service maybe---why not, can't hurt--for women its cheaper too I believe. Then you have others to hang out with and kiss this jerk good bye....and if he goes begging you back, please don't take him back. Hes making a fool of you. Sorry but that how it looks like. 

He doesn't seem worth your time. People rarely change their dating habits. With him, it seems like hes coming to you for what he doesn't get from his girlfriend.

Which means that when/if you guys get together, he will find other girls to satisfy him in the ways that you do not.