Dear Bimbos.....

Dear Bimbos,

I am sorry for all the commotion that is taking place at the moment. I know the actions of the mods and admin (myself, Nico, Carrie and Joey) may seem harsh but we are acting now to  help the forum and its participents in the long run.

Prior to this overhaul, as some of you well know, certain players were bullying other players and making the forum their own private den/playground. A group of friends (though not all of them) were encouraging exclusivity; many will deny it now but in simple terms bullying is what was taking place. There was a negative air to the forum and the message conveyed was: It's cool to be mean. This forum was not intended to promote bullying and it is sad that it has had to come to this. The numbers of users and posts made in these forums has been in decline over the last few months before these changes and in contrast to what those people may want you to believe the last week has seen an increase in users on line and posts made the forums. It seems that slowly the tide is turning and  players are feeling safe to write messages knowing that they will be supported by caring mods and admin.
No longer will this place be the exclusive hang out of few - instead it will be the playground of many.

At the moment, the current state of the forum is being worked upon. It may seem like the mods/admin and I are being heavy handed but we feel that it needs to undergo this transition in order for it to be a hassle free place again where people from all over the world can join in and enjoy what the forum has to offer without feeling intimidated to post.

I have made many mistakes and I apologise for that. If I could do things differently I would have implemented these current harsh actions as soon as the bullying had come to my attention. Actions seem to be louder than words right now. Instead I opted for leniency and tried to come to an understanding with the ringleaders of the group in question. Many of you have praised me for my efforts but I feel the fight is still not yet over. We must work as a community and shun those who will try and make this place their own personal playground; one in which only they have control over.

The updated rules are there to protect the bimbo community, rules that we can all work from and be protected by. They will guide the admin, the mods and the players and ensure this place is free from bullies and negative influences for the benefit of all users.
Please help us in this struggle to make this a bully free zone.  We do not intend to isolate players but right now we are trying to crack down on certain activity. Please be patient with us. Please be patient with the mods and please be patient wih me.

I hope we can unite the real bimbo community against the bullies whom seem intent on causing trouble and making life difficult for everyone.

Chris
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