
what do all you males out there think about girls scars,spots,stretch marks,cellulite ect?
im asking as i used to be really overweight but now ive lost weight and im left with loads of stretch marks so what would you think if you saw a girl naked for the first time and she had loads of marks all over her body and would it matter if she was skinny or a bit chunky?
what things do you notice and care about that we class as faults like we havent shaved our legs for two days and we have a bit of fuzz or we've just woken up and forgot to take our makeup off so we have panda eyes?
Last edited by gotahavalittlfaith (07-19-2008 03:13)

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gotahavalittlfaith wrote:
what things do you notice and care about that we class as faults like we havent shaved our legs for two days and we have a bit of fuzz or we've just woken up and forgot to take our makeup off so we have panda eyes?
No, thats no problem, just as you as you smell clean...means no smoking too. I don't expect everything to be prefect. I don't think any guys do.
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If the guy cares too much, he's either shallow or secretly gay. XP Most guys I know are too busy feeling lucky that they even got a girl to give a flying ace if she's a hound or a fox. XD
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Boy I delete my first answer and maybe just as well.....but I am a straight guy all my life and don't even enjoy drinking with the guys too much so I can not see how I could be even a little bit gay...as for shallow...if that means like stuck up, well maybe I am..I say I am picky thats all.
Let me just say that only stretch marks I find as a turn off. I seen them first hand it they were not pretty, scars make her look tough--I like
If you can keep the weight off for many months and the marks aren't any better, I would see a doctor and find out how much it cost to remove them.
Yes, love is bind but thats once you are in love. You would have more freedom to wear sexy clothes. You are very young at just 16...I can't lie to you. I have been thin all my life, I wear a 30 inch waist pants. I tend to get along better with my size gals...she was just 29 years old and had a cute face but her stretch marks did not look pretty and she got a little angry when I said something, so other may feel the same way.
If its just a simple cut to remove them, I would say its well worth it.
Please, I need no hate mail or nasty posts...I know my answer isn't nice but its the truth from first hand ex....I am really trying to help on here....if she can easily remove the stretch marks she should...losing weight is the hard part, I believe having the marks cut away is risk free just about...the costs I do not know..but I would think its out patient surgery.
Last edited by Skylor (07-19-2008 04:53)
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Cryzilla wrote:
If the guy cares too much, he's either shallow or secretly gay. XP Most guys I know are too busy feeling lucky that they even got a girl to give a flying ace if she's a hound or a fox. XD
True. My best gay pal is more critical of women than even women are of themselves!
My boy says my biggest flaw is that I complain about so-called flaws...
Is this something lots of you guys complain about?








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Skylor, I do not believe you can get rid of stretch marks with surgery.
Believe me, if you could, women would probably be all over that.








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Yeah, I googled it...wow...$3000 to $8000 to have a tummy tuck...now theres laser surgery at $200 each time and you need a few times...
I am sorry, I didn't think the costs would be that high....once you are ,married and have a kid thats far different than what I was thinking of...no guy in his right mind would leave a gal because of stretch marks, if he did he wasn't worth having anyhow....
Google did say that age is a big part, shes so young at just 16 they may just go away with time or just 1 or 2 laser treatments.
You be surprise what doctors can do today...look at 70+ year old Joan Rivers, lol.
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BTW I only seen them once and I know for a fact I seen some women would had children, so maybe we thinking of two different things..these were on her belly and even her sides...I am guessing she had that lip-o-suction were they suck the fat out and you get thin fast...she was thin but look poor...I see 20 lbs overweight gals that looked better than her....even 40 lbs, lol
Think of a rhino skin, thats how it was, lots of it up high.
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i know the laser surgery is so expensive

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"Panda eyes" are cute!
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Well gee, I really can't see why it costs so much but guess cause doctors do it.
Give yourself some time, it may get better. Don't gain the weight back on, its unhealthy and you can hide your marks--you can't hide fat.
You need to learn to dress sexy without showing your belly..it can be done. Once you are close with a guy then hopefully he will overlook it.
I am not a normal guy...really. Things that are not a big deal to many guys are to me. I won't date a married lady--cause I don't want to be the one that causes a break up...some guys don't care and go right for it.
So just because the marks were a big turn off to me, doesn't mean other guys will feel the same. I still did spend sometime close to her anyhow.
Hey, heres a idea....find some sexy underclothes that hide your belly. This way you can get undressed but keep the marks hidden
like I said, you can just hide them--easier than hiding fat.
Last edited by Skylor (07-19-2008 22:37)
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wow.
I lost 140 pounds too quickly and have stretch marks and extra skin- i know it's not attractive but my fiance doesn't care. I've looked into those procedures you've mentioned, but those are really only viable if you a) already have kids, or b) plan to never have them.
Stretch marks are a part of life.
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I am male and I've got stretch marks down both of my hips. I had them since my early teens. I was a very skinny teen and am now more normal weight. The only reason that I can think I might have them is that I grew in height so fast and young. I'm six foot tall and have been the same height since 13/14 years old. No ladies that have known my body have ever complained about the my marks and I'm not hung up on them, I just find it bizarre that I have them as they are usually associated with women.
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iWishonStars wrote:
wow.
I've looked into those procedures you've mentioned, but those are really only viable if you a) already have kids, or b) plan to never have them.
Stretch marks are a part of life.
makes sense, did not know that.
And some wounder why a guy would be on Miss Bimbo...cause I learn new stuff on here!
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Ruppel wrote:
I am male and I've got stretch marks down both of my hips.
I guess many guys could have them too. What it is, most people keep getting fatter all their life--until they get very old. But guess marks can happen to anybody who loses weight.
I weight 120 lbs when 18 and weight 130 lbs-with my shoes on-now...like I said, I am not normal 
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Ruppel wrote:
I am male and I've got stretch marks down both of my hips. I had them since my early teens. I was a very skinny teen and am now more normal weight. The only reason that I can think I might have them is that I grew in height so fast and young. I'm six foot tall and have been the same height since 13/14 years old. No ladies that have known my body have ever complained about the my marks and I'm not hung up on them, I just find it bizarre that I have them as they are usually associated with women.
My boy friend is 6'5 - had a growth spurt around 5/16 from 6' to 6'5 and has them- as well as where his muscles grew. It's normal for both sexes- just happens when you grow or shrink too fast.
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Skylor wrote:
Ruppel wrote:
I am male and I've got stretch marks down both of my hips.
I guess many guys could have them too. What it is, most people keep getting fatter all their life--until they get very old. But guess marks can happen to anybody who loses weight.
I weight 120 lbs when 18 and weight 130 lbs-with my shoes on-now...like I said, I am not normal
you are pretty much akin to a freak of nature Skylor 
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alot of my male friends have them around their arms from lifting weights
I dont think I know many girls that dont have stretch marks.. I got most of mine as a teenager from growing and I was never a large size. I got some more from having kids, they have faded now, they are so light, I used to be very self concious of them, but I rarely give them a second thought these days. I'm just me







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Coming from a gay guy, I am around girls ALL the time.
In all seriousness, of all of the straight guys I know, once they've met a girl that they like, no little stretch marks or scars or birth marks or anything will turn them away.
If a guy leaves you for something that petty, think of it as a blessing; nothing good could have come from having someone that shallow in your life.
And a tip: Try not to be so hard on yourself. Really. Not to be mean, but thats something that most girls I know need to be told.
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Me and my partner are both 22 and have stretch marks which we both got when we were around 16/17 when we had growth spurts. We are still normal average sized adults.
I hated it when they were darker colour, but they are so faint now that I cant really get hung up about them.
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Theres marks and then theres marks.
The ones I was turn off on were very noticeable, like a Bulldog has. You could see them a mile away, ha ha.
As for winkles, yes everybody has those, unless you are a super model--they get them too one day thou.
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Skylor wrote:
Theres marks and then theres marks.
The ones I was turn off on were very noticeable, like a Bulldog has. You could see them a mile away, ha ha.
As for winkles, yes everybody has those, unless you are a super model--they get them too one day thou.
I know a man who has recently had Botox done to fight his wrinkles (tho' he didn't have any very noticable ones.)
He looks quite odd now, like a grinning shiney faced ventriloquist's dummy.
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Stretch marks are forever. If they're red, that means they're fresh and the only thing you can do is lighten them with products or just wait until they lighten on their own. There's not much you can do the get rid of them. Sure, you can get a tummy tuck to get rid of them on your stomach (which will leave a scar), but if haven't had kids yet and you plan of having kids, you'll just get more and have to do the tummy tuck all over again.
Everyone can get them, including men. Tons of male athletes have them from lifting weights. If a guy doesn't like you because you have stretch marks then forget him, he's not worth your time.
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As old as I am, this has been the first place that I have heard of other men having stretch marks. Thanks for that, I thought that it was just a weird thing about me, but I now feel that its a bit more universal. 
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wow i never thought guys got stretch marks as commonly as girls did i guess ive just never noticed!its great that the opinions of older and younger guys tend to be the same except for skylor of course lol

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