ASK YOUR DOCTOR!!!

Thank you, this thread is a wonder full idea, i applaud you ( clap clap clap )

Good idea, and if anyone does post about their personal problems, maybe if any of us know of a good professional website link that would answer their question we could offer a link to it, and redirect them towards professional help and advice, just like the webmd, and netdoctor websites, etc.

So why have a section on the forum "Bimbos in the real world. Real - life feminine issues, advice and education." If you don't want us to air our problems why has the site owners put this whole section on here. Either we have open frank discussion's that will stem from real life problems or we don't have this section on the forum at all.

ClassyGoddess wrote:

So why have a section on the forum "Bimbos in the real world. Real - life feminine issues, advice and education." If you don't want us to air our problems why has the site owners put this whole section on here. Either we have open frank discussion's that will stem from real life problems or we don't have this section on the forum at all.

Because. Thats why. I personally think the body forum is pointless for personal discussions. I don't think anyone here is qualified to give professional advice. Instead it's better to post professional links to help people. So maybe if people have a problem other bimbos should post links that relate to the problem and can help the bimbo in the situation.

I agree that you should ask your doctor about the serious things. On the other hand I see nothing wrong with talking about the minor things. It's sometimes nice to talk to others about their experiences and what not. Couse for me just one person, a doctor or a professional telling me something is "normal" doesn't elevate my worries quite as much as hearing from actual people with the same thing happening to them.

JM1863 wrote:

I too feel that this forum should not exist because it cannot be properly moderated. At least adjust the settings of the forum so that it's 18 and up...of course then people will lie about their age, but it would help ease liability for the site. I just think things of personal nature should be discussed with health advisors, not random strangers. I also feel like their are parents out their who want their kids to come to them, not the internet, for answers.

Thanks for making this a sticky.

i know i would want my daugter to rather come to me one day

Some people on the game are mothers and have experience or whatever. But alot of people on the game arn't and don't. We can not and should not be giving advice to someone who may take it seriously and leave us conciously liable.

Syrinx wrote:

I agree that you should ask your doctor about the serious things. On the other hand I see nothing wrong with talking about the minor things. It's sometimes nice to talk to others about their experiences and what not. Couse for me just one person, a doctor or a professional telling me something is "normal" doesn't elevate my worries quite as much as hearing from actual people with the same thing happening to them.

I agree. Sometimes its nice to know your not the only one. and i do go to my doctors, and listen to them. but its always interesting to hear what others have to say or have been through. i think its fine

ClassyGoddess wrote:

Professionals are not always the best to ask, some of us here are mothers and women of experiance, and this can qualify us to give an option. IF WE WARN PEOPLE THAT THIS IS a personal options then I think that this will be OK. Stop tip toeing around in these forums. Make up your minds. I understand that the owners of the site want to give the media the image that this site is more than just a silly little girly game promoting breast enlargements by putting a forum that promotes debate on a less shallow issues. Remember how ever that this is a game and a lot of us signed up for a laugh during the media storm, and we are still here. So if you are proving a point leave the discussions open. Let the mods edit or remove inappropriate replys' or threads. However if you are asking people to discus and voice options leave it alone or remove the whole section from the forum. Most of use where loyal to the forum before this section was open. Do it properly with few butting ins or don't do it at all.

I actually no longer have a problem with this forum in general with the exception of one thing, which I have seen happen with my own eyes.  And there weren't any experienced mothers giving out the correct advice on these two and no mod was going into the threads when, IMHO, dangerous advice was being given.  The one problem that I do not think anyone here should give advice on, us mothers or no, is medical advice.  Anyone asking for medical advice should immediately be referred to a doctor or other medical professional.  After all, mothers are not docs (and yes, I am a mother).

The advice that I saw given on here that should have been deleted was about a tampon problem.  A couple of people told a young lady that a tampon staying in too long wouldn't cause TSS b/c TSS was just bad luck basically.  That advice was actually allowed to stay on here!  That young lady had no idea whether her tampon was still in or out and it had already been 12 hours.  She should have been told that she needed to see a doctor as soon as possible to have it checked out just in case.  It took quite a while for someone to finally say that though.

The other piece of advice that could have gotten this site and some members sued was about BC pills.  A young lady accidentally doubled up the dosage.  Instead of someone telling her to call her local pharmacist to ask for the correct information on what to do, most people were telling her to just take her next days pill as she normally would.  BC pills are very different depending on what they are.  I, myself, take a very high amount of one.  The girls mother finally called the pharmacist and she said that the girl needed to skip her pill the next day and THEN take them as normal.  That is just another shining example of what type of medical questions the people on this site, unless they are docs or pharmacists, do not need to answer.  I realize that some people feel like the know the answers b/c they have been in a similiar experience, but that's not true.  All experiences are different.  Please, just do the right thing and when a medical question arises, just point the person in the right direction.  Give your opinion, but please finish it off with, "but you should always check with your doc or pharmacist first."  It just gives a layer of safety.  That's all.

Shirl

Chantilly33 wrote:

There is also a great website that I volunteer on called Allexperts. This site has doctors, nurses, dentists...ect...that will answer your questions for free by email. It usually takes anywhere from a few hours to two days to get answers. Check them out.

www.allexperts.com

Thanks for the link, Chantilly33.
Could you please post that here?: http://www2.missbimbo.com/forum/t51727, … advice.htm

Also you should go on teenagehealth.org or kidshealth.org

Some things these people are asking do NOT require a doctor.  Some people are just asking personal opinions on the issues we as women face.  This forum is not supposed to be used as medical advice, so those who are doing so shouldnt.