TIME OFF FROM HUSBANDS/BOYFRIENDS? Is it normal?

Lianet · 07-16-2008 01:28

i dont get u peoples i love having bfs

PrincessAri25 · 07-16-2008 03:18

Thanks to all of you girls!! Really ! smile

Kumari · 07-16-2008 11:31

I've never felt that I ever needed time off from my past boyfriends. It was great. I've only experience this now that I'm married (for 5 years). I've never been with anyone else longer than my husband (7 years)...

Kellicious · 07-16-2008 11:33

We need alone time for our sanity!!!!!

Kumari · 07-16-2008 11:40

Kellicious... haha.. well said in few words!

Mrs-Valo · 07-18-2008 02:16

kumari wrote:
I wish my husband was brave enough to go to Iraq. I'd even pay for the ticket to send him away hahaha...

sourire

Me too me too.

Eviann · 07-18-2008 02:31

Definitely... friends just give you something you can't get from your husband/boyfriend. My boyfriend is really like my best friend but I know there's just some things I don't even bother going to him with. Like no one understands quite like that friend. Plus you can't complain about him to his face - unless its an argument! lol

I also like the sanity comment : fou rire :

Mrs-Valo · 07-18-2008 13:11

I want time off from my life. Any takers?

Kumari · 07-22-2008 12:35

Mrs. Valo.. I can totally understand where you coming from... hein

Mrs-Valo · 07-24-2008 00:42

Nobody wants my life? comon!

Kumari · 07-30-2008 13:53

Mrs-Valo wrote:
Nobody wants my life? comon!

What's it like?
Mine's just boring. You'll be brain dead in a week. Easy.
I'd swap!

Kat Izakari · 08-04-2008 15:24

Mrs-Valo wrote:
I want time off from my life. Any takers?

Amen, sistah. Mee too. content3

Mellen22bunny · 08-04-2008 15:31

Oooh time out from my life? i would definitely like that

as for getting time away from your boyfriend or husband.

There are days where i feel i can't breathe a second more without him, im so comfortable around him and there are moments when i think both i and he would be better off if i walked away, i don't know if its hormones but it really messes with the emotions, i wish someone could explain it...

Kellyfoxe · 08-04-2008 22:33

I think it comes down to the individuals and the circumstances. People have to do what's right for them, but, if you are settled and have children, it's wise to think twice before rocking the boat.

Mareikka · 08-12-2008 04:11

It depends. Too much of ANYONE can get annoying, and needing space is normal. (I love my man and my friends and my family, but if I spent EVERY second of EVERY DAY with someone, they wouldn't be as charming, don't you think?)
A little bit is normal, but if a guy is consistently annoying or unbearable to you, perhaps you may want to think about choosing a more mature partner.
Also, if someone does something in particular that makes you want to be away from them, talk to them about their habit. You never know, you might fix something.
If you just want a little break, don't worry too much about it. Everyone needs "me" time. smile

Ahaalya · 08-12-2008 04:36

oh my... i am about to get married and reading all this helps! we live in different countries and right now i'm quite happy going on with my usual life.. i rarely miss him even! but i will be moving to where he lives in January.. and i'm hoping then we will not grow sick of each other quickly!!!

Kumari · 08-15-2008 11:32

Ahaalya wrote:
oh my... i am about to get married and reading all this helps! we live in different countries and right now i'm quite happy going on with my usual life.. i rarely miss him even! but i will be moving to where he lives in January.. and i'm hoping then we will not grow sick of each other quickly!!!

Wait at least 2 years.. by the 5th year... you'll probably only say 2 words a day to each other.. LOL

Morning!

and

G'Night!

BillyBobo · 08-16-2008 11:59

me nda my wife dha fihgts evne when shei wass ni her lat7e sevneis, btu nrve breaks! in our day thgbnis wernt leksi thyat, but its ckhanged and i have had noe brezak to be homent becuse i saw prositutes when i weres 67! and tehen she passed waawy long time!

Kumari · 08-24-2008 14:44

BillyBobo wrote:
me nda my wife dha fihgts evne when shei wass ni her lat7e sevneis, btu nrve breaks! in our day thgbnis wernt leksi thyat, but its ckhanged and i have had noe brezak to be homent becuse i saw prositutes when i weres 67! and tehen she passed waawy long time!

I have absolutely no idea as to what you just said.
Can someone please translate?? content4 Thanks

OMGGIRL23 · 08-31-2008 21:45

Carson3 wrote:
kumari wrote:
Do husbands/boyfriends have much 'guys time'???

I've been married for a while and I'm ashamed to say, I really don't enjoy my husband's company. I find it boring. I still love him dearly.

I would rather sew or do gardening or be in another room that to sit with him.

I don't understand what is going on.
Sounds like you need a chance to miss him. Or maybe he's just bad company.

uuu huuu

Tildushka · 09-02-2008 14:22

It is impossible to spend all time together. All need to go somewhere, to meet friends, to do some things. My bf don't like shopping, so I never ask him to go together. I have some good friends, also he have some his friends. I have enough time for myself, because my bf study and works. If I want to take some rest from my life I go to my parents homes without my bf, or I meet some friends, which I saw long time ago. And after that I miss my bf, and when he ask what I did today, I have something interesting to tell smile

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