bff with a hot bro?

Lilbimbogirl · 06-25-2008 03:39

ok my best guy friend ever is really nice to me, he helps me with everything, sweet, charming, funny, and he's been flirting nonstop with me. i think i like him back. but then i sawhis brother and DAAANNNNGGGG! hes soo yummy! hes hot, swwet, hot, nice, hot, and he asked me to the movies! if i do go with him, that'll break my buds heart! but if i dont go, that'll break mine...

Papillionsky · 06-25-2008 04:06

Are you willing to hurt your best guy friend because you think his brother his hot? I say don't go.

Nikkiisawesome · 06-25-2008 04:22

you should go with your best guy friend
just because his brother is hot isn't always better
go for which ever one treats you right

Keilly · 06-25-2008 04:40

If you know your friend has a crush on you, then so should his brother, which I personally find it very shady for your own sibling to hit on someone you like.

My advice would be to keep hanging out with them and make sure of which one you like, because once you pick one sibling you normally won't get a chance to change your mind and go with the other one.

Bubuheartzallie · 06-25-2008 08:30

hmm...... I'd say, I'm on Nikkiisawesome's side..... smile

Nat07B · 06-25-2008 08:36

Do you think you'd still have the same sort of relationship with your friend if you went out with his brother? How do you think he would feel?

IceGem · 06-25-2008 08:41

Ah see, my best male mate fancied me, and I went out with his cousin, and that was thrown at me in every given oppurtunity, and me and my BFF never got on the same again. So you run the risk of losing your BFF, is the bro really worth that?

Mlleamour · 06-25-2008 11:08

i've never been in a situation like that, bu if one day you were sure you like your best friend and you saw his brother and now you like him, i think you dont like your friend for sure. Im not sayingyou should go out with the brother, just think about which relationship would you chose if you had to big_smile

Foonyan · 06-25-2008 18:17

Hang out with both of them for a little longer. If your bff likes you than he would want you to be happy and let you go out with his brother. Think wisely because if could destroy their brother and brother relationship.

LadiiEva · 06-26-2008 03:31

lilbimbogirl wrote:
ok my best guy friend ever is really nice to me, he helps me with everything, sweet, charming, funny, and he's been flirting nonstop with me. i think i like him back. but then i sawhis brother and DAAANNNNGGGG! hes soo yummy! hes hot, swwet, hot, nice, hot, and he asked me to the movies! if i do go with him, that'll break my buds heart! but if i dont go, that'll break mine...

Its not like you guys are together, I say go for it. I know I would.

Mlleamour · 06-26-2008 18:00

do you already decided what to do?? hein

Zeldababy · 07-01-2008 19:25

Keilly wrote:
If you know your friend has a crush on you, then so should his brother, which I personally find it very shady for your own sibling to hit on someone you like.

My advice would be to keep hanging out with them and make sure of which one you like, because once you pick one sibling you normally won't get a chance to change your mind and go with the other one.

Yeah unless it's my brothers! lol they just get mad for a little while, then as soon as the other has a new girl they're fine

SmileyAshlie · 07-02-2008 08:53

Keilly wrote:
If you know your friend has a crush on you, then so should his brother, which I personally find it very shady for your own sibling to hit on someone you like.

My advice would be to keep hanging out with them and make sure of which one you like, because once you pick one sibling you normally won't get a chance to change your mind and go with the other one.

I agree with this.
But until you know, its important not to go to the movies.
But just in case you do genuinely like his brother more, go with an excuse that will be understandable; like mom grounded you for a high text bill, or that you have to do chores that night, or say you desperately need to study.

Blue-eyed-angel · 07-02-2008 15:10

I say sometimes us girls have to do what's better for us! If you think the relationship with your best mates bro will work, go for him! If not, and it might be a little fling then stay with your best mate! But you have to know that it will upset your friend, but follow your heart!

Gina · 07-07-2008 08:09

Juz be cool cool Follow your heart ... sourire

Ashrudd · 07-15-2008 12:19

papillionsky wrote:
Are you willing to hurt your best guy friend because you think his brother his hot? I say don't go.

i agree 110% sourire

Kellicious · 07-15-2008 12:22

ashrudd wrote:
papillionsky wrote:
Are you willing to hurt your best guy friend because you think his brother his hot? I say don't go.
i agree 110%

I agree 120%

Britneysnowroxy35783 · 07-15-2008 16:17

Personally I would go with the best friends brother... see what he's like... and judge him on that. Who knows he might be the right one

Lovedeathcab · 07-15-2008 16:53

Personally i'd not go out with either! If you go out with the brother then you will most likely hurt your best friends feelings and you might find out that even though the brother is hot he may have an awful personality and things between you and your best friend would probably never be the same again. If you go out with your best friend and it doesn't work out you may not be able to salvage the friendship. Just think it through, is the brother worth it, i meant really worth it? Is your friendship with your best friend too good to possibly throw away?

Bobbi---x · 09-24-2008 06:40

Go with the brother, you dont wanna ruin the friendship with the friend :]

Kira2176 · 09-24-2008 06:46

I say don't go out with the brother at all.
And if you really do like your Bff and it is real, then maybe go for him.
But not the brother. Hot ones always know they are hot.
Not worth the drama.

Claracathy · 09-24-2008 06:51

xxsabrinaxx wrote:
Stick with your friend!

Dating friends siblings is a no no!

me too would go with sabrina's advice

Annakitty11 · 09-26-2008 19:30

as you already sed you like your best mate why not just go out with him you liked him in the first place so whats the point of loosing a frend just coz you think hes hot theres no point tell his brother you are going out with your guy best mate ... and seeing you sed you liked him just date him wink

Absinthewithfaust · 09-27-2008 19:41

Wow man. Go for it. Your friend's gonna have to deal with you going with someone other than him eventually, and if he can't still be good to you because you're dating his brother, he's ridiculous.