Fun with jealousy

SpoiledDivaPrincess · 06-22-2008 15:34

So in case any girls are interested in how the other half searches for love, I have a story from the club last night. After offering to buy drinks for a nice-looking girl, we got to talking, and while she was single (and had been for a long time, apparently), she wasn't looking for anything more than friends.

Well, we continued talking anyway, until about a minute later a very large guy put his hands on each of our shoulders and began to take a great interest in what we were saying. He was at least one foot taller and 100 pounds heavier than this girl: apparently he was her friend-of-a-friend who had come there with her group. And apparently, he was dying of unrequited love for her. He wasn't very happy about me talking to this girl, and even though she told him to go away he kept trying to separate us. I think he might have used force if one of their friends hadn't been there to lead him outside and explain (several times, from what I hear) that the girl just wasn't interested. And then when that didn't work, they told him she had slipped out the back door and gone somewhere else.

Ultimately, she stayed inside for another half-hour, sending friends outside to scout whether or not he was waiting outside for her. After seeing that, I'm not surprised she didn't want to give me her number, but perhaps I'll see her again.

Last edited by SpoiledDivaPrincess (06-22-2008 19:29)

Mlleamour · 06-22-2008 16:24

How can she tolerate him, i would be certainly more than annoyed by a friend like this!

Expired · 06-22-2008 17:38

can I ask you something stupid, why do you call yourself SpoiledDivaPrinces

SpoiledDivaPrincess · 06-22-2008 18:57

expired wrote:
can I ask you something stupid, why do you call yourself SpoiledDivaPrinces

It's the name of my bimbo. It's like when I play a fantasy game, I name my character something heroic.

Satanistpotta · 06-22-2008 19:15

I don't like guys who treat girls like objects. It's just so rude and discriminate

OpalStar · 06-22-2008 19:22

with stories like that I always feel bad for the good guys that didn't do anything, but wow ... can't say I blame her ... better luck next time though Diva wink

Michelle858b · 06-23-2008 07:24

I don't go to clubs, the rancid cesspool atmosphere makes me gag.

Sverra · 06-23-2008 07:44

It really does depend on the club. I find that any sort of club that presents itself like a meat market isn't worth my time.

As for your story, I really can't stand that sort of behavior personally... she must have the patience of a saint.

Nat07B · 06-23-2008 10:00

That's a bit stalker-ish!

IceGem · 06-23-2008 10:09

A friend of mine is quite like that. Needless to say, I dont go out with him anymore! Sometimes it doesn't matter how blunt you are about things, some people just dont get the hint! haha.

Nat07B · 06-23-2008 10:26

They really don't. I can be so nasty to people and they still ask me how I am, if I'm alright, do I want to go out. I've just told you you're a loser and to f off. Where is your self respect?!!?

SpoiledDivaPrincess · 06-25-2008 22:44

Nat07B wrote:
They really don't. I can be so nasty to people and they still ask me how I am, if I'm alright, do I want to go out. I've just told you you're a loser and to f off. Where is your self respect?!!?

I know that was meant to elicit sympathy, but all I can think of is how great it would be to be that popular with the opposite sex.

Michelle858b · 06-26-2008 05:30

This is Nats at her local bar wearing a gold studded white dress, having a friendly conversation with an interested male

Nat07B · 06-26-2008 09:14

SpoiledDivaPrincess - That is not true! I just don't get how I can be nasty to someone and they don't go away...

Haha you keep cracking me up Michelle, just what I need in the morning! Thanks! (That's pretty true to life tongue )

SpoiledDivaPrincess · 06-26-2008 12:29

Nat07B wrote:
SpoiledDivaPrincess - That is not true! I just don't get how I can be nasty to someone and they don't go away...

I may be off-base here, but when you're outright rejected, it's better for your own self-confidence to pretend you're enjoying yourself. The worst thing a guy can do is become easily discouraged in those situations.

IceGem · 06-26-2008 12:30

SpoiledDivaPrincess wrote:
Nat07B wrote:
SpoiledDivaPrincess - That is not true! I just don't get how I can be nasty to someone and they don't go away...
I may be off-base here, but when you're outright rejected, it's better for your own self-confidence to pretend you're enjoying yourself. The worst thing a guy can do is become easily discouraged in those situations.

Ah I see, but if a girl says no are you not making a bit of a tit of yourself if you keep on her case?

SpoiledDivaPrincess · 06-26-2008 12:40

IceGem wrote:
Ah I see, but if a girl says no are you not making a bit of a tit of yourself if you keep on her case?

If a girl says no, our interaction is pretty much dead, so what she thinks about me ceases to be relevant. Sorry if that sounds mercenary, but if you only have the emotional energy to talk to one girl a day, chatting with girls becomes a frightening ordeal.

IceGem · 06-26-2008 12:45

Haha! bless ya!

No not mercenary, normal! But to keep talking to her and get upset if someone else does, then silly!

SpoiledDivaPrincess · 06-26-2008 12:50

IceGem wrote:
Haha! bless ya!

No not mercenary, normal! But to keep talking to her and get upset if someone else does, then silly!

No, I'd never get upset about someone else talking to her. It's all about entertaining yourself and keeping your spirits up smile

Nat07B · 06-26-2008 12:51

SpoiledDivaPrincess wrote:
Nat07B wrote:
SpoiledDivaPrincess - That is not true! I just don't get how I can be nasty to someone and they don't go away...
I may be off-base here, but when you're outright rejected, it's better for your own self-confidence to pretend you're enjoying yourself. The worst thing a guy can do is become easily discouraged in those situations.

Even when you're rejected constantly by the same person and don't just let them get on with it?

CandyCotton · 06-26-2008 12:53

The guy i'm with now.. I'd got bored of playing games and flirting with people not knowing if they liked me and if they'd ever get the hint and all that.. so I just emailed him and said outright. "I'm bored, wanna go on a date?" and he said yeah but thought I was actually just bored and just being silly.. but now we're engaged! lol

Pilot75 · 06-26-2008 13:06

SpoiledDivaPrincess wrote:
... a very large guy put his hands on each of our shoulders and began to take a great interest in what we were saying. He was at least one foot taller and 100 pounds heavier than this girl....

hmm maybe i'll be the only one thinking this thing BUT.. have u ever thought that guy wanted to try to have sex with both of u - together!?!?!

i think so.. (do u think it would have been a problem for u??)

SpoiledDivaPrincess · 06-26-2008 13:14

Nat07B wrote:
SpoiledDivaPrincess wrote:
Nat07B wrote:
SpoiledDivaPrincess - That is not true! I just don't get how I can be nasty to someone and they don't go away...
I may be off-base here, but when you're outright rejected, it's better for your own self-confidence to pretend you're enjoying yourself. The worst thing a guy can do is become easily discouraged in those situations.
Even when you're rejected constantly by the same person and don't just let them get on with it?

Maybe, maybe not, but either way it's not about impressing you anymore tongue

Nat07B · 06-26-2008 13:46

So what is it about? Trying to get what you can't have?

IceGem · 06-26-2008 14:14

Well I'm a brat, so I get everything my own way! haha

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