Break ups

Lexiii12x · 06-21-2008 17:57

Heya everyone,

My boyfriend and I broke up the other day sad , and even though I was the one who called it off, I'm still not handling it well sad . One moment I'm fine, and the next I'm in floods of tears. I know that I feel like I'm the only one in the world atm, so I thought I'd post this so that those of you who are going through break-ups atm know that you're not the only ones!

It was kicked off because he was flirting with my best friend, so now I feel soo insecure and horrible sad .

So if any of you are in similar situations, leave a comment so that everyone out there doesn't feel so alone!

MysteriaKiito · 06-21-2008 18:24

Don't beat yourself up over him, Lex. I'm so happy you were mature enough to call it off! Good for you! It means you have self esteem and you are not going to put up with that kind of behavior! So you have no reason to feel insecure because you did something that means you feel totally secure with yourself. If you were insecure you would have stayed with him.

I was in a relationship with a guy that was secretly in love with my best friend and he eventually slept with her. I stayed with him throughout all the warning signs and I got my heart broken and my self esteem was totally destroyed.

Do not let this break you. You are strong for standing up to his behavior. He had no right to flirt with your best friend. You'll find a better guy, you're young and there is time. smile I got my happy ending and you will too. Just give it time, you're only 18 and there's college and parties and all sorts of other things. Who needs a man to make you a woman? You're a great woman now! Live your life to the fullest!

Missbeautyqueen · 06-21-2008 19:01

Don't be sad, you'll be ok! At first is a bit lonely because you got used to have someone always on your side and now you feel empty! I know how you feel I've been there... but you'll feel better tomorrow, and the day after tomorrow you'll feel even better...
Try thinking that you're never alone, you have friends and family that will be always by your side, supporting you!

And... there are a lot of boys in the world, boys may come and go but friendship lasts forever right?

smile

If you want pm me! And I can be your virtual friend! smile

Lexiii12x · 06-22-2008 09:24

Thanks Bimbos! You're so sweet!

Bel1a · 06-22-2008 10:06

Me and my boyfriend of one year, one week and 3 days broke up today, it hurts like s*** right now, but i know tomorow or the next day i'll feel better. So Lexiii, hunny thanx for letting me know im not the only one out there! bisou Me and my Ex's relationship broke because of his new Ediction, that i wont mention online. But theres so much i tried, he refused it, So i needed to let him go.

Just gotta think positivily hun content3