Drty girl! u stop thnking bout my boobies right now!!!

Bar8ie wrote:

Ok this thread is old.. but if a guy still wants to help i really would appreciate it.

I've been in a relationship for 2 years and now planning the date of engagement.
6 months ago(which is still carrying on) my boyfriend is acting kind of controlling.. as advising me (more like telling me) what to wear, when to go out, with who to go out, time limit and etc, its not really to the point of abuse (i dont mean physical ofcourse) but its relly bothering me that he's attemting to control me..
Could anyone suggest what can he be thinking? is it some crack in our trust,? or is he showing his true colours after all this time? or its his way of being more carrying???
Anyone? plz?

i would ask whats up or somethng. or ask/tell him to stop. if he doesnt LEAVE emedietly 'cause if you dont it could get worse...

hello there
it is a bit complicated but thanks god i know about complicated stuff lol

you told a boy u liked him which you dont and now you are afraid he will tell the real guy that you like?

dont get stressed out... when the boy will tell everyone just say the truth. Say you do NOT like him and that you lied for a dare that your friends told u.

and the part where u've never had a boyfriend itz ok... some will date at the age of 12 and others will wait for the right boy and the right time.

just let it go and dont think about it and one day, when u less expect it, u will find ur prince charming.

have a nice days
kisses&hugs

Err guys? If you could be massaged anywhere in any way what would it be? (non obvious spots)

Or what special thing could a girl do for you you would be very happy with and want to have forever and ever :-p

:-p

Kellie Leah wrote:

OnlyHannah wrote:

ok ive got a question about boys

if i say im not ready yet, do you think he will leave me?

ive been scared stiff for weeks, i want him to be happy and i dont want to loose him, my best friend did it and he left her, ive been with him a year, have i left him waiting too long?

And above all things remember that you're worth waiting for.

He might leave, but if you're not ready, you're not ready.  Tell him that.  If he leaves you because you don't want to be physically intimate with him, he wasn't worth your time in the first place.  Take the time to explain why you're not ready.  When you do decide that you're ready make sure you use protection.

...

Good luck.

Kelli You are good. I love what you said

Xian789 wrote:

I don't know what to do...I was forced to tell some dude in my class who I liked(I don't like the guy I told)and I'm afraid he will tell...and I've never had a boyfriend before...I've never told the person who I liked that I like them...I've never had any boy tell me they like me...I haven't even kissed a boy before...If he he told the dude I liked,that I liked him I would probably start to cry...I can ANYBODY help me?

                                                           P.S I'm only in 5th grade...please don't hate me!

that hapend to me. i was in 9th grade tho but i had liked this guy for a while and one of my friends went and told him i liked him. it was so embarrassing i just left the lunch table i was at and didnt look at the guy i liked. but in the long run it was only a crush and i got over him.

do you talk to the guy you like at all? if you do you should see some changes in him if the person told him that you liked him.

hope this helps 

chick010247808 wrote:

ok i have a guy friend (not boyfriend) should i get him something for v-day or would that look like i wanted our friendship to be more then what it is?

you could get him a joke present?

hi my name is kathy and me and my boyfried have been going out for a year now and we talk no the phone alot and every single time he says he loves me he says it really softly and when i ask him what he said he says nevermind or nothing then goes to another topic do you know whats up?

sweetymary wrote:

skullkittys wrote:

hi my name is kathy and me and my boyfried have been going out for a year now and we talk no the phone alot and every single time he says he loves me he says it really softly and when i ask him what he said he says nevermind or nothing then goes to another topic do you know whats up?

well i think he loves u and that's so sweet of him.
but he tells  u 'nevermind' because he thinks he won't get in in return  or u dont feel the same way about him.
the other explanation is that like all boys he doesn't want to spend hours talking about his feelings. guys dont like to talk about feelings when theyre young.

tc.

ahh that actually makes sense thank you
valentines is coming up...idk what to get him

sweetymary wrote:

skullkittys wrote:

sweetymary wrote:

well i think he loves u and that's so sweet of him.
but he tells  u 'nevermind' because he thinks he won't get in in return  or u dont feel the same way about him.
the other explanation is that like all boys he doesn't want to spend hours talking about his feelings. guys dont like to talk about feelings when theyre young.

tc.

ahh that actually makes sense thank you
valentines is coming up...idk what to get him

it depends of what kind of relationship u guys have... but a perfume is a good gift in all ways.
what is he gonna get u? or u dont know yet...

yes my friend pried and told me what hes gonna get me
he is going to get me a big teddy bear and a card with a red rose and then take me on a picnic
we have a really good relationship and have been going out for a year

Xian789 wrote:

I don't know what to do...I was forced to tell some dude in my class who I liked(I don't like the guy I told)and I'm afraid he will tell...and I've never had a boyfriend before...I've never told the person who I liked that I like them...I've never had any boy tell me they like me...I haven't even kissed a boy before...If he he told the dude I liked,that I liked him I would probably start to cry...I can ANYBODY help me?

                                                           P.S I'm only in 5th grade...please don't hate me!

I wouldn't be a stress case about it.  So the guy you don't like (guy1) knows you like some other guy (crush1), if he's a smart boy (guy1) he won't be asking you out or wasting time chasing after you.  And if he runs up and tells your crush that you said that you like him, how is that going to turn out bad?  Aside from the rejection issue that your crush may not feel the same way about you (happens more often than not) it's always best not to let these feelings be buried inside. 

If you like your crush, start asking why you like them so much.  Talk to them, say hello, introduce yourself, try to be friends with them first.  The better you know someone the more likely you'll be able to gauge their feelings about you (platonic, romantic, non-existent). 

It's perfectly natural to start being curious about boys around your age so don't feel embarrassed about it.  Find an adult you know and trust that you can talk to about your boy-toy issues.  And if you haven't started talking to the guy you're crushing on, how do you know you even like him? If you haven't even talked to someone and you have intense feelings for them, it's not about love or friendship, it's about your physical level attraction to them and the fantasy you've built up in your mind about what kind of boyfriend they'll be.

So stop fantasizing about this boy and start talking to him.  Rejection may hurt, but you'll never regret chasing after someone and trying to get to know them and being told no, they are not interested in you.  It's the ones you didn't make an effort for that you wonder about from time to time while reminiscing about what might have been.

My personal advice to you is to focus on yourself and getting to know as many people as possible while in school.  There will be plenty of time for romantic relationships when you are older (think college) and able to better handle the emotional fallout of a failed relationship.  For now, your focus should be on getting over your shyness about talking to people you don't know and focusing time on your studies, personal interests, your family and making/keeping your friends .

chick010247808 wrote:

ok i have a guy friend (not boyfriend) should i get him something for v-day or would that look like i wanted our friendship to be more then what it is?

Nothing wrong with getting a present for a guy because he's your friend, but typically Valentine's day gifts are associated romantically.  Make sure it's a gag gift or that he understands you wanted to give him a gift because you like him as a friend and thought he would appreciate it.  But if you get him a nice gift for V-day and then leave him to guess as to your intentions in the friendship, well he'll most likely wonder what you were thinking.  Best to tell him exactly how you feel.  You think he's great, you like him as a friend, and you wanted to get him something nice for V-day but it's not a romantic gift.

skullkittys wrote:

hi my name is kathy and me and my boyfried have been going out for a year now and we talk no the phone alot and every single time he says he loves me he says it really softly and when i ask him what he said he says nevermind or nothing then goes to another topic do you know whats up?

He's a shy boy that's not very confident in what he's saying to you because he's afraid of rejection.  Though, after a year of dating, I have no clue why.