Ive got a qusetion


If a guy hits you or calls you names what does that mean because me friend friend austyn does that

If you ever picked on a girl why did you do it?

sneezed wrote:

Boys don't seem to really cry as much as girls, is this just because they don't get upset or they don't want people to see them upset.

Boys get upset just as much as girls do. There is a stigma in culture that men are supposed to be the strong protectors of the weak girls. Disney movies havn't helped to turn around this thinking. Plenty of guys I know end up growing up not feeling their emotions because its not considered masculine. When my husband got in a car accident I started crying on the car ride over to get to the hospital and I got teased about it from the male nurses that I wasn't "being a man". This behavior discourages males from showing their emotions.

Last edited by DevyBabe (05-31-2010 01:24)

DevyBabe wrote:

Suhei wrote:

If you ever picked on a girl why did you do it?

To my knowledge, I have only ever picked on a girl once. She had tried to get it on with my husband to improve her photo grade. I made it my mission for the rest of the semester to make her life hell.

Thanks, but it doesn't help me much.

ladominicanaa809 wrote:

Why can you guys be suck d*cks sometimes??? (sorry for the word)

I totally read that sentence with a bad mind. Gotta get that thing out of the gutter  .

Ok, It honestly depends on the guy. For me, I end up getting a bit brash when I feel threatened. It is easier for me to have a short fuse when I'm stressed out already. I know plenty of men who end up being rude simply because they were never raised to think that was something inappropriate. For every person, the reason that they will be rude will be different because every person is different. If you don't like how they are behaving, don't be around them.

DevyBabe wrote:

ladominicanaa809 wrote:

Why can you guys be suck d*cks sometimes??? (sorry for the word)

I totally read that sentence with a bad mind. Gotta get that thing out of the gutter  .

Ok, It honestly depends on the guy. For me, I end up getting a bit brash when I feel threatened. It is easier for me to have a short fuse when I'm stressed out already. I know plenty of men who end up being rude simply because they were never raised to think that was something inappropriate. For every person, the reason that they will be rude will be different because every person is different. If you don't like how they are behaving, don't be around them.

Thanks

lozthehotbimbo wrote:

I've got a question for boys:
me and my friend are both single, and we get guys attention but they never come up to us and ask us for our numbers or anything.
I'm 5ft 2, blue eyes, dark hair, pale, ghetto booty, and my friend is 5ft 10, dark green eyes, dark hair, olive skin and bigger up top why is guys check us out but never bother to chat with us? HELP! xx

Personally I check out girls all the time but i'd be too nervous about rejection to ask someone out. So, consider it may be their shyness?

I am a guy if you hadn't guessed.. 

Why would a guy follow you home keep talking to you when you say you don't want to talk with them and then tell his friends you're scary? Is there reason to this or just some modern dating style I don't understand?

Profound wrote:

Suhei wrote:

Why would a guy follow you home keep talking to you when you say you don't want to talk with them and then tell his friends you're scary? Is there reason to this or just some modern dating style I don't understand?

This.

Lol I thought so. Thanks

Suhei wrote:

Why would a guy follow you home keep talking to you when you say you don't want to talk with them and then tell his friends you're scary? Is there reason to this or just some modern dating style I don't understand?

Sweetie, no one has the right to follow you home. He sounds like a creeper and very childish. He probably told his friends that you're scary because he can't handle the rejection. Stay as far away from the creepy boy as you can.

ParisKatherine wrote:

If a boy looks at u a lot of time that`s mean he like u?

Often times, yeah.

Or maybe it's that spider on your face.

Sexy_Condom wrote:

My boyfriend won't kiss me, this has been going on for months. I've benn dating him for 2 years, is he gay?

At 94 you're still dating around? You go girl!

Ok  Enough silliness and some more question answering.

I'm gona edge on the side of his not being gay. Nothing that you said screams him coming out of the closet. And if he is gay, you did nothing wrong and didn't 'turn him gay'.

I hate to admit it, but there is a serious coward in every guy I've ever known, myself included. When guys want to end a relationship, they tend to cut off all physical contact that they would give to just a girl that is a friend. It helps them see what that difference is and what they can do without or get somewhere else. If this has been going on for months, he is probably trying to get you to dump him so he does not have to dump you.

I would just tell him that it bugs you and that you two need to sit down and talk about what the relationship is to the both of you.

Last edited by DevyBabe (06-15-2010 06:25)