Single females - Independent or Lonely?

I am almost 24 an all I can say is, don't count too much on the right person showing up. make sure you can maintain yourself comfortably, and if there's some giy you like, enjoy it. but don't think of terms as forever (cause that's very very long). The last person I was with, broke up with me four days before we were supposed to move in together for someone he knew for a day. xet the day before that happened, he called me at 3 am to tell me how much he loves me. There are no securities in life, so be prepared.

I've been single for almost five years now, and I hate it. HATE IT. But I just don't meet the right guy. Sometimes I think I may not be meant to have a relationship anyway. Sucks. Really. I don't even demand that much - I want him to be male, human and preferably able to look after himself. Also, some sort of bodily hygiene would be nice...

Last edited by Anjali22 (06-22-2008 21:06)

Anjali22 wrote:

I've been single for almost five years now, and I hate it. HATE IT. But I just don't meet the right guy. Sometimes I think I may not be meant to have a relationship anyway. Sucks. Really. I don't even demand that much - I want him to be male, human and preferably able to look after himself. Also, some sort of bodily hygiene would be nice...

I know what you mean Anjali22!!!
I also don't know what to do sometimes!!! And I don't wanna end up like a spinster with 50 cats 
I just don't have that CLICK with the guys I meet know!

Hmmm I'm 19 years old and i'm single. I can be with boy only for 2-3 weeks. Maybe I have hard character? But I'm not lonely. I can't met boy who is good for me. I want perfect man and it's my mistake:D. I have only little adventures with boy- but i'm not bimbo! I think if you are single you can meet more interesting people! I like meet new boys. First dates are funny for me:P When I have boyfriend I can't meeting with other guy:D

Serious relationship is not for me. I'm so young...

Sometimes i'm sad but i like be single.

I wish it was that easy for me to meet people.
Everytime I meet a guy they only want one thing. And if they don't get it.........they're done 
And if you keep walking around with different guys everytime, people think you're slutty 
I'm just talking to them!! That's it!!!

So.......being single > sucks sometimes
being in a relationship? > I DON'T REMEMBER 

I feel like sometimes I just want my independance, to go out and have fun, live life as I'm only 17. But, I still wouldn't give my man up, so it's all confusing! I want to enjoy my young life, like on my 18th, I want to go clubbing.

I've only been on a date once. And it sucked because the guy was acting immature and trying to slap my butt.

You come into this world alone, you die alone. Best learn how to be independent now.

Nesje1 wrote:

Hello fellow bimbo's! 

I have been a single woman for 7 years now.
It's not that I don't want a boyfriend but I just haven't met the right guy 

Friends who have a partner think I should have someone cos' in their mind I'm so sad and lonely. They either try to fix me up or cheer me up when I don't need cheering up. 

Of course I'd like to cuddle up on the couch with somebody special sometimes but I also enjoy my life right now where I don't have to consider anybody else but myself.

Anybody having some similar situation?
Let me know about it and express yourself!

Enjoy your day! 

you pretty much summed up how I feel on this as well!

blue35bell wrote:

Well I've been going out with my boyfriend for 1 1/2 years now and sometimes I'd rather be single cos I can't figure out if I feel like his friend or girlfriend, he treats me like his gf but I dunno.... I feel more irritable when I'm with him

But you still love him, right?

Anjali22 wrote:

I've been single for almost five years now, and I hate it. HATE IT. But I just don't meet the right guy. Sometimes I think I may not be meant to have a relationship anyway. Sucks. Really. I don't even demand that much - I want him to be male, human and preferably able to look after himself. Also, some sort of bodily hygiene would be nice...

that sounds like the perfect guy.......i hate it when guys think that woman have to do everything for them.
i hope you find you're prince charming Anjali22

Mrs-Valo wrote:

Single women are LUCKY!

Why do you say that???

I like being single but i'd rather be in a relationship with somebody.
i'm just a person who doesnt like to be alone
idk im weird lol

Being quite an oldy on here, all I can say is that in my experience the best times of my life were when I have been single....  Travelling, studying, meeting new people, doing as I please.  I've had a few proposals of marriage now and a ten year relationship, although have chosen to be single again and don't regret a thing.

Having a great partner is wonderful, although we change and evolve in life, so expecting to stay with one person -  until you have reached a place where you know yourself, accept & appreciate yourself and are happy being alone with you - I think would be a mistake.

Break ups feel like the end of the world at the time, although they are just the beginning of a new phase in life - as exciting or challenging as you make it.

Whatever makes you happy (longterm) in life is the right thing to do for you.