im a lesbian...any others on here?

I really don't know :\ I feel like it would be easier if I wasn't, but I kind of... well... am.

um... lol?

I'm bisexual and most of my best friends are bi or gay.

Personally I think love is love so in theory I am Bi. I haven't dated anyone yet so I haven't officially declared myself anything. Though I have had people ask me if I am a lesbian because of how I act with my friends, most of which are lesbians and taken.

<-------lesbian with a strange fetish for my husband *grins*

If you feel the need to label me then I'm bisexual and out, mainly. I think my Dad and Uncle are the only people who don't know but they've probably figured it out by now.
I've got three ex-girlfriends and one of them turned out to be my pet peeve. A girl who decided she was bi to be "cool" and "not-label-herself", three months in and she decided she wasn't into women at all. No one knew it had happened despite her being in my circle of friends. Closet cases and experiment are a no-go for me.

Anyway, yeah, bi and dang proud. Why limit yourself to one gender when there isn't enough love in the world as it is?

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Spicydoll wrote:

At my age there is so much homophobia. People go "Oh! You're soooo gay" as an insult. I'm not personally gay or bi, but I respect the people who are brave enough to say it. If you make a comment at my all girls school like "Oh, you're looking nice today" or if u kiss someone on the cheek then they go eurghhhhhh! It sucks

I know what you mean! Sometimes people are like "OMFG THATS SO TOTALLY GAY!!!" and then they turn to me and say "no offence or anything.". The other day a guy in the year below started having a go at me so I dealt with him all girls in my year do. Scream "RAAPPE!" at the top of my voice until he says sorry. You have to have a sense of humour about these things.

i dont know what i am... i feel sick wen i have an attraction to a boy. but i have no homosexual thourghts

Lorelai Lee wrote:

CrazyMissKaz wrote:

i dont know what i am... i feel sick wen i have an attraction to a boy. but i have no homosexual thourghts

You are teen. Don't worry 

lol thanks:)

Firefly007 wrote:

I think sexuality is a spectrum on which almost nobody falls exactly on "completely straight" or "completely gay".

this is true i think

I'd usually describe myself as around 10% gay, 90% straight. I've slept with a few girls, but I don't think I could sustain a relationship with one. But, to my mind, sexual and emotional compatibility is more important than gender. I also think people make to big a deal of it all. Sexuality is a tiny part of one's identity.
xoxo

I'm bisexual but they don't have many differences

I concur, love is love.  I don't see why everyone has to make such a big deal about being gay or bi.  You can't really choose who you love, in my experience it just happens.