i've never really had a lot of luck with boys.
I was wondering wat do u look for in a girl?
R dere certain things dat u like or not?
Does the girls shape matter to u?
Last edited by kari23ann (06-02-2008 20:03)
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smiley overload!!!!!!!!!
I'm a girl but I'm sure guys look for a pretty girl who has an opinion of their own and doesnt let her friends influence her in the type of clothes she wears. They like mysterious girls who are wild and crazy fun!
Buuut I could be wrong!
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Are you trying to get us boys in hot water
OK joking aside, what I like and don't like is her to be outgoing, not shy. Be in shape and care about herself and others. Clean hair, highlights are nice but don't make or break her like greasy oily hair might.
Clothes matter too, the fancier the better. Even in this auto part store I shop at, the girls all have to wear the same shirt and pants but this 1 loud spoken lady--which I have my eye on
wears a fancy belt around her waist, really looks good on her and I bet she really knows how to dress up--she just start working there and hopefully I get to find out, shes noticed me too already--in fact shes the one who first spoke up to get me to notice her, lol.
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I have a big problem. Since I am a vivid reader and writer, I love lots and lots of diferent types. Friends know that too well ;___;
But hey, one good thing girls have boys dont: Breasts :3
But definetly , personality is a major turn on:
-- freasky, sporty, simple minded, fun and happy
-- cute, petit, sweet and romantic
-- nerdy with glasses, smart, well mannered and maybe a bit arrogant/ pwning
-- tomboysh, agressive
-- devilish, chick, busty an d coming to get you
And oh so many.
The clothes just bend with the personality, in my humble opinion :3
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I agreed with that
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DukeChiba wrote:
-- nerdy with glasses, smart, well mannered and maybe a bit arrogant/ pwning
If only more guys were like you...
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Liney wrote:
DukeChiba wrote:
-- nerdy with glasses, smart, well mannered and maybe a bit arrogant/ pwning
If only more guys were like you...
Believe me THERE ARE!
What happens is that some girls who enter in that pattern tend to simply thing: "They wont like me so I ont need to worry about this stuff" or just cry around, and they forget all about image.
Ofc image isn't the most important, but if you look scary and maybe even unclean, you transmite the wrong idea and scare guys away.
That happens with the "sexy" type, too. : /
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DukeChiba wrote:
But definetly , personality is a major turn on:
-- freasky, sporty, simple minded, fun and happy
-- cute, petit, sweet and romantic
-- nerdy with glasses, smart, well mannered and maybe a bit arrogant/ pwning
-- tomboysh, agressive
-- devilish, chick, busty an d coming to get you
All kinds of girls, at least for me, are A-okay.
On guys, I tend to like the first type of personality, because I am a little idiot that happens to fall for the jocks all the time. This is, of course, if you add the 'won't date fatties' to the first option.
on girls... well, I like them cute and sweet. I prefer them a bit fuller than most guys do (maybe because I'm a bisexual girl), I like them all natural, I hate makeup on girls when they don't really have to put it on.
Glasses? Major turn on on both genders. I think people gain an air of... elegance. XD
...basically I agree with DukeChiba. I love all kinds of personalities, I love exploring them as I write, but there are some of them I get along better than with others.
...I'm an all rounder. I like everyone and I find beauty in almost everyone.
Yes, yes, even fatties. Being one myself I have come to enjoy my body and learned to love the other's 'love handles.' XDD
Plus, chubbier girls are usually a lot more tender and sweet, and they tend to be people whom you can have a long, heartfelt conversation with. X3
...I'll stop talking now. XD
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DukeChiba wrote:
Liney wrote:
DukeChiba wrote:
-- nerdy with glasses, smart, well mannered and maybe a bit arrogant/ pwning
If only more guys were like you...
Believe me THERE ARE!
What happens is that some girls who enter in that pattern tend to simply thing: "They wont like me so I ont need to worry about this stuff" or just cry around, and they forget all about image.
Ofc image isn't the most important, but if you look scary and maybe even unclean, you transmite the wrong idea and scare guys away.
That happens with the "sexy" type, too. : /
Well none of the guys I know like that in a girl. They just think I'm a freak, I guess being obsessed with maths doesn't help
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I'm just too cool 
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Sakkikinoshita wrote:
Plus, chubbier girls are usually a lot more tender and sweet, and they tend to be people whom you can have a long, heartfelt conversation with. X3
That, and you have more place to grab. I'm not a "fat person lover", but baby fat is just way cute.
Liney wrote:
Well none of the guys I know like that in a girl. They just think I'm a freak, I guess being obsessed with maths doesn't help
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Thw world IS full of guys. And please, that stoic / arrogant / inteligent types are always fun and it is nice if you arent into one night stands \o/
Glasses ARE a major turn on.
But I know lots of girls that could easily get the charm going on on that, but they dont care the least about how their hair is, they look like they dont even wash their face, their glasses dont really go with their faces and the cloths are a big t-shirt and bagy pants ( OFC there is this one cute flufty thing that not even baggy clothes take her cuteness away \o/ )
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Expect for sunglasses I rather her not wear glasses, don't know why--maybe it covers their face up...I am picky thou...but honest 
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Well, we shouldn't forget we are talking about genres, not general pleasing.
I am trying to say that not all girls look good in glasses, not all girls are cute with baby fat, not all tomboys makes us go crazy in anger and lovey love...
But hey, that goes for boys to, so one can say life goes around like that : P
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DukeChiba wrote:
Liney wrote:
Well none of the guys I know like that in a girl. They just think I'm a freak, I guess being obsessed with maths doesn't help
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Thw world IS full of guys. And please, that stoic / arrogant / inteligent types are always fun and it is nice if you arent into one night stands \o/
Glasses ARE a major turn on.
But I know lots of girls that could easily get the charm going on on that, but they dont care the least about how their hair is, they look like they dont even wash their face, their glasses dont really go with their faces and the cloths are a big t-shirt and bagy pants ( OFC there is this one cute flufty thing that not even baggy clothes take her cuteness away \o/ )
I take care of my appereance and I wear tight tops and jeans that fit. All the guys I know go for the girls that are not right in the head or are gay... I need to get some new guy mates.
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Liney wrote:
I take care of my appereance and I wear tight tops and jeans that fit. All the guys I know go for the girls that are not right in the head or are gay... I need to get some new guy mates.
Not all guys are like that... it's just the modern times.
Give it time and someone right will come up for you, honestly, I know I shouldn't be jamming in your conversation, but believe me when I say that the guys who look right into your heart are the ones that take the longest time showing up.
DukeChiba wrote:
Well, we souldn't forget we are stalking about genres, not general pleasing.
I am trying to say that not all girls look good in glasses, not all girls are cute with baby fat, not all tomboys makes us go crazy in anger and lovey love...
But hey, that goes for boys to, so one can say life goes around like that : P
I second this. =3 Very true, very true.
...baby fat is adorable, at least in my opinion.
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Sakkikinoshita wrote:
Liney wrote:
I take care of my appereance and I wear tight tops and jeans that fit. All the guys I know go for the girls that are not right in the head or are gay... I need to get some new guy mates.
Not all guys are like that... it's just the modern times.
Give it time and someone right will come up for you, honestly, I know I shouldn't be jamming in your conversation, but believe me when I say that the guys who look right into your heart are the ones that take the longest time showing up.
I gave up looking for a guy months ago. I'm not really bothered about being single, I like playing the field 
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kari23ann wrote:
i've never really had a lot of luck with boys.
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Does the girls shape matter to u?
I ain't going to lie the shape does matter but you also need a good personality and not so uptight.
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well my ex bf just liked me for my body. and i didnt like that because we couldnt have a real conversation. but he wasnt very smart lol. he was a jock. but lol. im single now. becuz i dumped him.
<<<<<<<<<<yes this is me btw
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Attractiveness is important. For attractiveness is ultimately about if they are healthy and capable of child baring even if most don't like to think of it that way. I think you'll find allot of men will find this very important. However for some they are not as demanding as you might think. Some are just happy with fitting the profile or reasonably healthy and able to bare a child which is a large proportion of women at that age. It's fairly important to even me and I'm highly philosophical and unconcerned with the superficial world. Although I'm not that demanding. As long as they don't have a BMI under 18 or over 23, aren't massively disproportionate anywhere or extremely unsymmetric and have reasonably clear skin (some spots are ok) that's good enough for me. However there's nothing more rewarding than actually being able to have a conversation with a woman about things. Especially when they agree which is almost never haha. So a way to a man's heart is to agree with everything he says.... just joking. It is important to have some similar views on things though. To be honest while looks are certainly an aspect I have occasionally found myself very attracted to some buxom women because they like things like Warhammer, Final Fantasy, Metal and Terry Pratchett.
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im too fat to date but i wish i could but the guy i like is taken and hes going to a diff school :'(
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Stacey05 wrote:
well my ex bf just liked me for my body. and i didnt like that because we couldnt have a real conversation. but he wasnt very smart lol. he was a jock. but lol. im single now. becuz i dumped him.
<<<<<<<<<<yes this is me btw
are you tryung to meet some1 new???
BTW yr pic doesnt show
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im a girl but i dont really have a problem with guys........most guys like my appearances and my personality~outgoing,flirty,smart,bubbly,kind,funny....and the fact that im a cheerleader so im in shape
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Sir mix a lot had a song about what he liked most about girls... I wonder if that applies to anyone else here
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DukeChiba wrote:
I have a big problem. Since I am a vivid reader and writer, I love lots and lots of diferent types. Friends know that too well ;___;
But hey, one good thing girls have boys dont: Breasts :3
But definetly , personality is a major turn on:
-- freasky, sporty, simple minded, fun and happy
-- cute, petit, sweet and romantic
-- nerdy with glasses, smart, well mannered and maybe a bit arrogant/ pwning
-- tomboysh, agressive
-- devilish, chick, busty an d coming to get you
And oh so many.
The clothes just bend with the personality, in my humble opinion :3
im just like you ( but a girl of course lol) i read so much i have developed loads of differnet tastes in guys!

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Eliea wrote:
im too fat to date but i wish i could but the guy i like is taken and hes going to a diff school :'(
no one is too fat to date!! i bet ur not even that big what is ur size if u dont mind me asking - im size 16 if it helps 

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This was super informative! Way to go guys 
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