boyfriend/girlfriend problems and zoe will help!

xORebeccaBabezOx wrote:

I Have A Problem..
My Best Friend Was Recently Asked Out By This Guy, But Hes a Real Jerk And None Of My Friends Like Him.
Hes Cheated On Most Of The Girlfriends Hes Had And He Treats Girls Really Badly.
He Only Wants Girls For One Thing, And She Knows That But Is Choosing To Go Out With Him Anyway.
Me And The Rest Of Our Friends Are Really Worried About Her. We Know That It is Her Choice And Everything, But I Dont Want To See Her Get Hurt.
Please Help
Thanks
x

I'm not sure exactly what kind of help anyone here can offer you. If this guy has a bad reputation and your friend all ready knows that and she still chooses to go out with him, there is nothing you can do really. You can't stop them from going out; As you said, it's her decision. The best you can do is be a friend, make sure she knows what she's getting into and be prepared to pick up the pieces.

Last edited by Guernica (07-10-2008 19:02)

yeah i know [sorry to all the people that dont get what me and hedi are talking about!]
well my older bruva has done something really stupid and chaged the age of my bimbo on my profile when,i accidentley forgot to log out of miss bimbo so now im 12 YEARS OLD! so thats why you cant talk to me im really annoyed about it too.:@.But we could always talk to eachother on the forum if poss.I hope that has answerd your question ,but next time you send a msg can you write wha times you would be online
sorry for all the unconvinence  .....speak to ya soon
xx zoe

.H.e.i.d.i. wrote:

hey Zoecanastella i know this nothing to do with the thread but i cant message you anymore.
i saying i cant message anyone under 13 ?????

Yeah i know it's a pain not being able to talk to all the people i had met such as you heidi and im not really sure how i can make my bimbos age back to my origonal age 20 because my  annoying brother changed:( so imm trying to get in touch with the mods so they can help me out but im not succeding    im really missing all of you guys
so hopefully we can chat on one of my threads if poss when wer'e both online
bubi for now
x

.H.e.i.d.i. wrote:

zoecanastella wrote:

.H.e.i.d.i. wrote:

hey Zoecanastella i know this nothing to do with the thread but i cant message you anymore.
i saying i cant message anyone under 13 ?????

Yeah i know it's a pain not being able to talk to all the people i had met such as you heidi and im not really sure how i can make my bimbos age back to my origonal age 20 because my  annoying brother changed:( so imm trying to get in touch with the mods so they can help me out but im not succeding    im really missing all of you guys
so hopefully we can chat on one of my threads if poss when wer'e both online
bubi for now
x

i had that prob my account got hacked and my age was changed so i contacted the
people who run the site not the mods.
you know at the bottom of the screen it says contact i pressed on that
and sent them a message and they helped me out and changed my age back.
have you tried that?

i know ive been tryin to talk to you for weeks lol

Ahhh thanks for the help yh i know i have missed speakin 2 you guys aswell
i will try and get it sorted.But i thought i couldnt send messages since im 12 apparently
so what shall i do,i will contact ya if it does work
mwah...x

anarexianervosa wrote:

okay well my boyfriend wants to marry me and is planning in on moving in with me
the problem is i'm only 18 and he's only 19
i'm a libertarian he's a republican
i'm very anti war after he heals from his surgery he wants to enlist
he's a sweet heart
but i feel like our relationship is based on sex

i have some mental problems
i really don't know what to do

It's very possible to have different political/social views and still have a successful marriage. At the same time, not everyone can. If you are worried that your relationship is mostly sexual, then you really aren't ready to get married. You need to tell him that. Tell him you're still young and that you want to wait a few years until you really think about marriage.

ButteredCracker wrote:

well i guess if the forum is about cheating now i have a question somewhat along those lines, how do i get my gf to trust me. i call her every day and never lie about a thing to her. i went to vegas last weekend and shes been pissed off at me ever since even though i didnt even think of cheating on her. its jsut getting annoying because people who know me really well know that i have rediculously high morals

sorry 4 takin so long 2 reply, well i think that ur gf has trust and is abit insecure, you need 2 tell her how the way she is acting i making you feel.
and hope it works out 4 the best

I think your friend or whoever the girl you know is, should think to herself and try and get herself together, but stay single for a while till she is ready to start a relationship with someone she thinks is ready to take up what she has to give...hope that has helped