
just be yourself!! girls love a genuinely nice guy!
i love a guy who can make me laugh above all else!!! and i really really mean that!! ive been with my boyfriend for around 2years now and he still has the ability to make me laugh! thats why i love him so much!!
your time will come i promise
just dont rush into anything ok sweetie 
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maxy123 wrote:
i read your post ty for the advice i what i meant to say was it is a bit of both no one will talk to me on this game or real life i lonley as bee plz could u be my friend
Max seems your kinda like another friend i got has no friends he plays xbox live msot the time and works my advice is if you want friend you can actaully talk to
get an xbox 360 a mic and get on that it be a start and since ig ot xbox ive met 20 of my xbox friends been drinking with them stayed at there houses even there trusted me to fix ther elaptops for them and ive sent them back to them
now even if i met them over xbox thats real friends becasue they have such trust
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Liney wrote:
buttcrack wrote:
advice:dont imediately mention that you pattake in playing this game right away, my girlfriend still doesnt know, either does anyone actually
haha, got a little secret life going on, aye.
LMAFO thats going to be good story when ya gf uses ya pc and see the website in ur history hope u aint made ya bimbo sluty if she see it u get a nut kick
make he rlook like a gf least that way u can cover up and say" baby i only play coul i made her look like you and i like doing things with u"
probally wont work but ya never know
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Agreed.
And don't listen to the girls here who say your should be friends first. You will be catergorized and that's then end things. You have to not want a girlfriend, because that's too obvious. You have to want a particular person, otehrwise she will pick up on the fact she's just filling a role. Also doomed.



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Confidence, Be relaxed, listen to them, put them before yourself, know your limitations, romance (it sounds cheesy but a lil bit of cheesy is good)
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I bet you heard that a thousand times but just be nice and funny, good sense of humor is always making girls feel comfortable around you
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Yup. I always fall for the funny guys.



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popular-gg wrote:
ok if a girl is mean ............all you gotta do is kiss her !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
if you are older and you have a more serious relationship all u gotta do is......................give her a strip show !!!!!!! ( or make her give you one............makes us feel cexy )
Uh, NO.
Do anything but this, please.
Just be yourself; someone out there will like you for that, hopefully.
But if you try to be something else, if people like that, they don't really like you, they just like who they think you are. And wouldn't you rather be liked for yourself?
Also, Loderi had some good points, especially about hygiene. Brushing your teeth (and brushing your tongue) at least twice a day (and flossing at least once a day) are not only good for you, but they will freshen your breath which attracts girls. Shower once a day, use deodorant once a day. Shower and use deodorant right after working out heavily (this includes playing sports, running, or going to the gym), too.
Don't fake intelligence that you might not have (I don't know how smart you are, so you might be very intelligent or very unintelligent). But at least try to learn about things, keep your mind open, ask questions, keep up to date with the news (and reading celebrity gossip magazines or blogs does not count as keeping up with the news) and what's going on in the world, and try reading books, especially classics. And don't pretend you know about things that you don't really know about. Admit that you don't know about something and the girl probably will be happy to tell you about it.
I know that sounds like a weird idea, but trying to keep up with news and reading books can make for good conversational topics. Also, listen to all types of music from all genres and different parts of the world. Listening to music can make for good conversational topics, too.
Good luck.
Oh, yeah, and don't be a stalker. That is the biggest turn-off. It's really creepy.
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Sparkles24 wrote:
popular-gg wrote:
ok if a girl is mean ............all you gotta do is kiss her !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
if you are older and you have a more serious relationship all u gotta do is......................give her a strip show !!!!!!! ( or make her give you one............makes us feel cexy )Yeah... forget that nonsense.
What seems to work for both guys and girls is to be independent. If someone sees how happy you are with yourself, how you don't need a girlfriend in your life, she'll be interested. People will want to know why you're so amazing, what it is that you've got "going on." It's easier to lure in a woman with yourself as bait than frantically run after her. And believe me, nothing makes a girl less interested in a guy than his obvious desperation for a girlfriend in his life.
but dont be big headed its a real turn off! i agree with being confident and idependant but being a bit shy is also really cute as long as you get her attention in the first place!

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try to be yourself, and even if you're with your friends when you're with her or the opposite way don't act like you don't know or like her. the best way to find out if someone likes you back is to ask tem. maybe not the actual question (if you're afraid of rejection) but it might be the best question. you could ask if she could help you with your homework or if she wants to do something after school. try to ask her girl friends if there's some guys she's interested in. that's what I would do. and until you know each other well there's no need to mention miss bimbo. 
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It all depends on how your asking her out! you need to make sure you are alowing time to get to know her and becom eher friend before asking her out! And if htey reject you, im sorry to say then they are just obviously not attracted to you.
all girls are shallow - and always judge guys on their appearances (we are all guilty of that) and im not saying your bad looking (because i have no idea what you look like) but if you let the girl get to know you more all the shallowness disappears!
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ty for ideas
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Well You See, I Think I Would Go For Someone Whos Proud Of Who They Are, SomeOne Whos Funny, But Not Abnoxious, Funny In A Modest Way.. Someone Who Can Laugh At Themselves Sometimes
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Be YOU
the best thing to be is yourself!!
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Elidas wrote:
be rude, many girls like this in a man (don't ask me why, but it works)
I think you've gotton "rude' and 'arrogant' mixed up with 'badass' Girls like guys who are badass's but trust me WE DONT like RUDE GUYS!
If your controlling and abusive.. were gonna hate you!
If you talk smack to your freinds about us.. sorry babe but we WONT like that either!
If you smell.. dont even bother talking to us! LOL.. please be CLEAN!
some things WE LOVE in guys are..
confidence
clean shaven
respectful
sense of humor
and just YOU being YOU! dont be afraid to be yourself!
Girls look for the same things in guys.. that guys look for in us. 
XOXO
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first off, be yourself. don't try to be something that you are not. there is a soulmate out there for everyone you just have to find them.
second, to help in your search for a girl; do what you like to do. if you read then go to the library, if you are a gamer then go to a gaming chat room and chat it up. I wouldn't suggest going to a club if that isn't your scene.
thirdly, (I haven't done it so I don't have the first hand experience) you could try a dating site. I believe they match up your likes and dislikes.
finally, don't be scared to talk to someone. they might reject you but you don't know until you try. best of luck.
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I've always found that I've been picked up by women when I've not been looking for them. I think its may be more attractive for a lady to see a man that is doing anything other than chasing girls. When you are not chasing girls and being nervous you are usually being relaxed and enthusiastic and to see that can pique a ladys interest. Hope it all goes well bruv! 
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dont purposly try
and dnot worry about impressing grils
kooky and akward guys are always so adorable
and be clean and neat
and smiles also are very attractive
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aww just try again never give up xxxx
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WELL IF GIRLS ARE ALWAYS REJECTING YOU THAN THERE MUST BE SOMETHING WRONG WITH YOU LOOK HOTTER THATS THE ONLY ADVICE I GOT FOR YOU OR JUST GET A GIRL AS A FRIEND AND ASK HER WATS WRONG WITH YOU ITS BEST GIRL OPINION THEN A GUYS OPINION THATS JUST FUNNY UNLESS THEY REALLY KNOW THE STUFF
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dont act desperate or clingy it makes girls feel trapped get to know a girl before asking her out and most importantly make her laugh girls like a guy who makes them laugh.
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Stop trying.
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i hate to say it but say anything that pops into your mind no matter how stupid it is and defend everything you say to the point that youre a jerk. for some reason that works for guys. that is if you dont care and just want a random girlfriend. im a nice guy and very shy guy. i met my girlfriend through luck. my cousin waent to beauty school with her and i met her that way. the only reason i ever asked her out is because i tohught she had a huge crush on me but it turns out she was just trying to piss off my cousin. if your are just nice and confident youll find a girl eventually. i know it sucks but you just have to wait if you want a real girlfriend.
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you should tell the girl you like her instead of being mean so just say the truth and ur may bag ur girl
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Elidas wrote:
be rude, many girls like this in a man (don't ask me why, but it works)
Not evry girl likes a man dat is rude, some like them to be kind sweet and funni.
I dont see how u achieve a girls luv by being rude to her
And dont worri soon u will find a girl dat likes u for who u are. Just have to be patient.

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