guys: how can us girls tell if a boy likes us?=]

when they make fun of you ! they want attention ! lol x

ViCTORiAsecretx wrote:

when they make fun of you ! they want attention ! lol x

well all the guys i know make fun of me 

haha yeah they tend to make fun of you in a cute kidding way.
if there are other girls around but youre the one he pays attention to the most, he most probably likes you.

i think you just know when a guy likes you. but a lot of the time you don't expect them to, so you're kinda like "does he, don't he?!".

has a single guy answered this yet? Nein? Guess I shud then.

Hannimoon gave 3 obvious ones. Smiling at you when making eyecontact also goes.

Shy guys ignore girls they have a crush on or rather look at a girl all the time and look away whenever she might look at you. Very annoying for the girl but even then there are hints:

- When in a conversation with others will not talk bad about the girl he has a crush on even when it's a bashingfest
- constant looking at the girl tho refusing eyecontact
- Unbelievably helpfull when you ask him something, usually these guys don't have the guts to ask the girl something so asking him something silly to get conversation started helps.

Ok, I took these mainly from myself but I swear there are more guys like that. We're the sad bunch.

WOw to be back in skool so young and innocent
Well you guys are in for a shock when you get to the real world!
Enjoy it while you can!!!

lolz , usually if there 2 shy 2 tell u then they tell 1 of ya m8z! or yi, they make fun of u hehe!

i got a bf but round the coner theres dis lad he said he likes me but when im with him all he dus it look at me lol

hmm, let's see. Guys would tease u and pay attention to u the most. Some of them try to hide that but normally thay cant, lol. Once i tried this, work for me. I was with a group and there was a guy who i thought might like me. I just tried to walk away from him and after a few minutes, he'd be rite next to me. They want to be near us if they like us, u know.

Lildude wrote:

Here's one for you blokes...I have been told that a relationship works better if you and the other half already have a close friendship, the relationship will last, I tried and my best friend and I don't even talk now. I have been told to wait to do any fun stuff in the sheets, I have and they think I am not interested. I have just gone out and had fun early into a "friendship/relationship" and they don't last more than a few weeks because I have made myself too easy. What is a single girl supposed to do?? I stay at home and raise my son by myself...That's what I do! lol Any advice will be considered. Thanks guys

maybe you're just not going for the right guys.
don't wait too long to.. y'know. i mean don't rush or anything but you don't want them to get all sexually frustrated haha or they're gonna end up looking elsewhere.
personally i definately think the best relationships are the ones where you're friends first because you know eachother well and its easier to know what makes them happy and stuff like that.
the fast, fun relationships tend to not last long because you and/or him are just looking for fun but thats not all a relationship is about. the novelty wears off and you realise youre not into eachother enough to have a real relationship.
idk if that helps atall  : )

Good advice, I too will have to take that into consideration next time I go out looking for a guy. Thanks, any tips on what guys look for would be appreciated.

i can always tell when a guy likes me, ive never been wrong. you just notice little things, they ill try to make you laugh/smile. if there confident...they ill challenge you to ALOT of staring contests, they will find some ay to touch you or be close to you.(a classic piece of evidence for this one is three years ago when my friends and i used to go to dreamworld alot, my then crush now boyfriend always used to say before every ride that he wanted to sit next to someone who screamed cause it was "more fun". I never knew until a year later he told me he would do that so that he had an excuse to sit next to me). they will also start little fights over who should have certain items so that they can try and get it off you, which also is an excuse to touch you.
and another biggie...they talk to your friends alot...to the point where you think they like them.

thers a few i could think of from personal experience... of cause it wont go for most guys but im sure thers a few out there like that. oh... also if they start commenting on pictures. like oh nice top blah blah and you have no idea where theyve gotten it from. there probably creeping yours or a friends myspace so that they can see you when your not around.

Lildude wrote:

Here's one for you blokes...I have been told that a relationship works better if you and the other half already have a close friendship, the relationship will last, I tried and my best friend and I don't even talk now. I have been told to wait to do any fun stuff in the sheets, I have and they think I am not interested. I have just gone out and had fun early into a "friendship/relationship" and they don't last more than a few weeks because I have made myself too easy. What is a single girl supposed to do?? I stay at home and raise my son by myself...That's what I do! lol Any advice will be considered. Thanks guys

There's a reason guys coin the phrase "The Friend Zone".  I've been good friends with quite a few girls, and watched them go from one boyfriend to another while I remained single.  Ultimately guys are taught that the longer you remain friends with a girl, the less likely she is to see you as a potential boyfriend.  Unless your guy friends obviously have a crush on you, it's likely that they stopped seeing you as a romantic possibility.  You should work on rekindling the idea of yourself as such by flirting before you go straight to asking them out.