listen babe. your unique, and even if you are a f*****g rat, atleast your not a bully. i think you should talk to your boy, and tell him whats happening.then i think you should let it go, because they want your reaction. i know its hard, im in this situation myself. you can always talk to me xxx
byeeeee

I think you should just ignore them.
Remember: Sticks and stones May break my bones But words will never hurt me!!!

Btw, it's chlamydia, not claymidia...

Just ignore her. The problem might slowly go away if she knows she is not getting to you. Most bullies like to feel power and the way they feel power is if people are scared of them. She is probably just jealous because she sees you are happy.

Or you could look the other way and think "I wonder why she acts this way" maybe she has something terrible in her life that is going on and doesn't know how to show her feelings correctly.

You could try to talk to her woman to woman or girl to girl and ask her why is she acting this way towards you. Try to find out if she is helping you in a good way or just wants your boyfriend. But like I have always said fighting over a boy is not a good enough reason to fight.

With it all summed up just do you. Be the bigger person in this situation.

Alluex wrote:

Whip out your handy dandy cell phone and call the police the next time they corner you and make threats saying they'll beat you up.

I agree with this 100%. Please don't just ignore it. Show that bitch that if she's going to make a scene then you can do it too. Plus, it might give her a scare enough to act her age.

She bullies because she is insecure and hurt that he chose you over her. I know plenty of jealous girls who do this to me and other girls as well. It's how they deal with their emotions. They like to bully and get reactions out of you. I would suggest handling it maturely. Confront her and act mature. Don't call names when she does, don't be rude when she is. Simply say things like, "Thank you for offering help with my relationship but I trust my boyfriend and I would like you to stay out of." Mature responses like this make her look dumb and she will have to make petty remarks until she either stops or says little. Also tell your boyfriend that she has been making these remarks and you don't believe them but if he could be a strong support for you that would be great!

Just get the police involved.  It's the easiest way.  In most cases, it'll ensure you won't be bullied again because if you keep making calls, eventually she'll get slapped with an ASBO.

Used to work with the reformed so I know how those things work for the most part.

Thank you everyone for you're advice, I've spoken to about it to my boyfriend and he spoke to her. If she doesn't leave use both alone we'll be going to the police. Thank you everyone so much! xxx

Well I saw her today and now she knows I just ignore everything she is doing she gets all her friends to do it for her -______- Then wherever I am she is there, I don't know if I'm just being paranoid by that, but she doesn't even go to my school and she just happened to be there when me and my boyfriend we're when i was on my lunch break.

gawjuzmofo wrote:

Well I saw her today and now she knows I just ignore everything she is doing she gets all her friends to do it for her -______- Then wherever I am she is there, I don't know if I'm just being paranoid by that, but she doesn't even go to my school and she just happened to be there when me and my boyfriend we're when i was on my lunch break.

You could keep track of when and were she shows up, sounds kinda stocker-ish of her to show up at your school during your lunch when she doesn't even go there. Then you'll know for sure if it's just you being paraniod or if she really is following you, and your boyfriend.