Hi c: well you aren't doing anything wrong!
Just be yourself if they are being like that then they aren't your real friends.
Yesterday my 'best friend' totally excluded me.. I felt horrible she has been doing that a lot lately and she really goes behinds people's butt and i'm being the only one there for her :S today she called me to do homework I said I couldn't make it. x

ASBO, it would be great if it were that simple
I have an extremely clique-y year, and to suddenly try and talk to other people, why, it's unheard of! Of course she will not be accepted, because the people she usually hangs out with have left her stereotyped as 'lesbian' and 'emo' despite her being of straight sexual orientation, and not fitting into the emo/scene stereotype!

lmao, it's not that I haven't tried. We have a load of airheads in school too, and I can't stand them. Damn my usually sarcastic, rather shy personality.

Thank god I have other friends outside of school, but the people I was once close with have suddenly gone all 'lol bitch we hate you' and I can't think why. That's why it hurts when they're meeting up without me, because they complain that I never seem to go out with them and then whine about feeling excluded...well, they never mention if they're going out. It's not like I don't have a phone, msn, facebook etc, they just don't bother.

Well, it would be nice to have people I can talk to in school.
I'm there from 7.45am until 3.30pm

I have friends outside of school, but they work and I rarely actually see them, due to clashes in schedules and other things.

Guys.


Don't take this the wrong way or anything. I'm not insinuating that you need to do anything with them, but be friends. I essentially gave up on female friendship years ago. Every girl friend I had ran for the hills when a) my parents got divorced, b) we lost our money, c) I had friends outside their incredibly restrictive relationship, or d) all of the above.
Guys are just more...chilled out. Straight men don't gossip (I'm on the fence about gay men, I don't know any personally), fight over other men, or do ridiculous things that girls do. Of course, this works amazingly if you're a tomboy, like me. Football, hockey, monster trucks, Ski-Doos, and the great outdoors all appeal to me, so I click better with guys.
My few remaining girl friends all say I'm a flirt by trade, but I really don't try to be. I don't want anything but a platonic relationship; be my friend, and draw the line there. Otherwise, you're not my friend, and I don't want to be around you. End of story.
Don't panic about talking to guys, either. It just takes enough (pardon the expression, and the irony) balls to walk up to someone and extend the proverbial olive branch.
ie.: My school's second semester started yesterday, and I am not friends with anyone in my biology class (I do know one boy, but he wanted more than a platonic relationship, so he went buh-bye). Today when I walked in, a very shy, very new boy was sitting in the desk behind mine. I had no friends; he had no friends. A casual conversation sparked by myself about pencil crayons petered out, but once we cracked out the microscope, I asked him if he would mind plugging it in (I was on the non-electrical side of the bench). He agreed, and I offered to partner with him for the project. He protested quietly, but you've got to push it sometimes. We ended up working together, and while he was very, very quiet, he did well. At the end of class, I realized he was two years older than I was and in his fifth year of high school. I was surprised, but hey, I made a new acquaintance.


Seriously, guys make good friends. Try it sometime.

Gemini, one of my closest friends right now is a guy, the only problem being girl stuff?
Yeah, lol. No one to talk to, and I find it very hard to actually talk to him sometimes because he's shy and he'll clam up some days.

I have 'gay' friends, and they're just like another load of girls, tbh.