I'm sorry but I can't grasp the thought of people not knowing how to masturbate.

I'm dead serious. I am NOT poking fun at you or your situation. But I actually, seriously cannot grasp that thought.

Last edited by KittySaysMeow34 (02-01-2012 00:34)

dude thats crazy

Miss Lacy wrote:

Em. Just tell him to ~experiment~ and find what works for him. There's no 'how to' guide.

THIS.
Just tell him to get himself hard, use his hand and.. jerk?

KittySaysMeow34 wrote:

I'm sorry but I can't grasp the thought of people not knowing how to masturbate.

I'm dead serious. I am NOT poking fun at you or your situation. But I actually, seriously cannot grasp that thought.

He.. was.. serious?
What exactly does he mean, though? Does he just not know how to get himself hard(been there, before I met my current guy I could not get off or get wet by myself at all, whatsoever.)? Does he not get himself to orgasm?

Alluex wrote:

KittySaysMeow34 wrote:

I'm sorry but I can't grasp the thought of people not knowing how to masturbate.

I'm dead serious. I am NOT poking fun at you or your situation. But I actually, seriously cannot grasp that thought.

This! I honestly don't believe people who say they don't know how or never have.

I wasn't quite sure how to do it when I first tried. I was very naive to sex and thought it was supposed to fill good if I stuck something up there and moved it back and forth. So needless to say, my first attempt at it (at age 17) did not go well and I felt nothing. It wasn't until I looked online did I realize I had this thing called a clitoris and that's what was supposed to be touched in order for things to feel good.

It took me almost a year later to finally get the grasp of it and that's when I started having my first orgasms. This was only after my husband (then boyfriend) figured out how to do it for me.

Last edited by brandedastar (02-01-2012 05:55)

florallover wrote:

Skylight_Blue wrote:

KittySaysMeow34 wrote:

I'm sorry but I can't grasp the thought of people not knowing how to masturbate.

I'm dead serious. I am NOT poking fun at you or your situation. But I actually, seriously cannot grasp that thought.

I TOTALLY get that and if it hadn't been for the serious look in his eyes and even tone I'd have thought he was full of it too....

How long are you married to him Sky...?

we just celebrated our 2nd anniversary in December and will have two kids by April so, for Kitty, I think it's just that he can't orgasm or just doesn't know how to cast himself in a sexual light, for himself, which might explain some other stuff actually...

Branded, that's helpful to know but i think I might have made the mistake of doing for him too many times and now he's just too lazy to experiment with himself... -_-
I was the virgin in the relationship and have already found three distinct techniques for him the hard way..."never scene a penis up close before his" kind of virgin.

What o_o

Wow, okay.  Show him a man masturbating on the internet?  There are plenty of videos out there.  My favourite is the public masturbator.  Pure filth.  Disgusting.  But strangely, it makes you feel really tense in case he gets caught.

100% liar. He has been wanking since he was old enough to use him thumbs.

I've had that conversation too with my boyfriend. He told me he didn't know how to masturbate and I told him it was all crap. It's simply because he prefers it when I do it. He then told me the truth and said he prefers it when I do it because it feels much better. Having had this conversation I sometimes refuse to do it for him and tell him he is going to have to do it himself.

Alluex wrote:

KittySaysMeow34 wrote:

I'm sorry but I can't grasp the thought of people not knowing how to masturbate.

I'm dead serious. I am NOT poking fun at you or your situation. But I actually, seriously cannot grasp that thought.

This! I honestly don't believe people who say they don't know how or never have.

as above. your spouse either lies or achieved a brand new level of weirdness. even if he didn't know, there's internet?