| that i love him and he loves me back | yes | 33% - 2 | no | 66% - 4 | ||
| that i love him but he does not love me back | yes | 33% - 2 | no | 66% - 4 | ||
| that i am only jealous of him | yes | 66% - 4 | no | 33% - 2 | ||
| that i am only jealous of what she has | yes | 50% - 3 | no | 50% - 3 | ||
| that he is just using me to get her jealous | yes | 16% - 1 | no | 83% - 5 | ||
| that i am jealous and i love him | yes | 66% - 4 | no | 33% - 2 | ||
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ok i like this guy and he used to like me too before his x cried her head off. he didn't want to listen to her cry anymore so he got back together with her. well he cuddled with me and he would rub my legs in computer typing class and he was always there for me before she started to cry everyday. so i want all of your oppinions weather it be voting or talking but i need your thoughts on this because i'm going to talk to him on the 11th and i don't know if i should ask him out (he broke up again) or if i should tell him that i never want to see him again. well just tell me what you think. oh and i'm closing the other post by me so you can post on this one.
>>emily
my boy
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Ok I am sure you have created several posts like this today. What's the deal? People already answered your problem for you before.
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i want to see what every body thinks before i make my finnal decision.
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Don't say you NEVER want to see him again,, your so young at 13...you know how long NEVER is? Nah, what like 1 year, ha ha.
He doesn't know who he wants yet either..don't make up your mind first...you need to wait and talk with him and then decide but don't say never because things could change..theres a whole live ahead of you.
Besides in 5 years you might not even remember him, lol.
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I wish I was still 13...



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I think you need anothoer choice for lust
That plays a lot into things
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You’re both very young to even be worrying about relationships and sorting through feelings of this type. Jealousy stems from mistrust and suspicion, and from inexperience and youth. If you're feeling jealous, it's because you're basically caught in a love triangle with a boy that's not sure about what he wants. So you’re left feeling, jealous ‘cause you want the boys undivided attention and you’re not getting it.
Get him some competition and make other boys as friends, but don't waste your time waiting around for him to come around when he's still hung up on the crying-girl. He might wise up and start chasing after you again, but do you really want to be in a relationship with someone that just hops from one girl to the next like it’s no big deal? Keep it light and keep things on a friendship level. If he ever touches you in a non-friend way, tell him to stop and make him stop (tell the teacher, tell your parents, etc).
Learn another language, learn how to play an instrument, stop chasing after adult style relationships when you're still living at home with your parents. There is so much more to life than having a BF or GF. Make sure that you know who you are, you know what you want, and that you love yourself. The right person for you will come along as long as you keep an open mind.
And I would strongly recommend talking to one of your adult relatives about your desire to have a BF or be in a relationship. Everyone has it, it's natural but sometimes we have a tendancy to rush things when there really isn't a need.
Last edited by Kellie Leah (08-01-2008 14:33)
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