I said yes as long as you know there's no emotional attachment. I don't see anything wrong with it, you're both mature adults and you know each other. It's not like you're running around having one night stands (not saying that's bad) but you're being safe and being with someone you know is safe

I'm speaking as if I were in your shoes. I myself am happily married

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Never happened to me but, I think it will be great, sex is sexxx

The bridge between love and sex is built from a branch of your humanity

Keep burning it down till one day you realize it's gone, permanently.

michelle858b wrote:

The bridge between love and sex is built from a branch of your humanity

Keep burning it down till one day you realize it's gone, permanently.

Thats a really deep meaning there... But then again humanity have changed so much that it's hard to say no to people these days so just I hope for the best for them...

saddly, the only ex of mine I'd consider having sex with came out of the homo-closet last year.  *sigh*

cathage wrote:

HeavenLeighBimbo wrote:

Shianzie wrote:

I've never had sex and I don't really want to, either.
I really hate children, so I don't want to take the chance of having a kid. That's pretty much my only reason. That's just me, though.

I'm not saying anything about this personal choice,  but  OMG,  I like SEX.  I couldn't do without it in my style.  I also had great married sex.   The concept of a sexless life gives me chills.  I'd take my ex-husband over nothing.

  Want to talk about sexual pleasure?   I can be a sex addict so easily.

agree

This!!

neriah wrote:

So you went from girlfriend to an ex to a bootycall.

Not entirely sure what's worse. I voted no.

Not quite sure why you felt the need to label it as a bootycall. For me a bootycall is sex with your fuck buddy or w/e not someone you have shared so many feelings with.
Breaking up with someone doesn't necessarily mean you are sick of them or stopped loving them.In some cases it is just the right thing to do for both parties even if there are still feelings involved. So rather than going out and doing one night stands with random guys or finding a fuck buddy *i should rly have kept contact with my old one *  i prefer to go to someone who makes me feel secure,safe someone who feels familiar.   I have already said that' i'm aware it's not the best choice for numerous reasons but given the particular circumstances it works best for me atm.
But the topic is not about MY situation and whether i've made the right decision,it's intended to see your general thoughts about resorting to an ex for sex.I'm not looking for an advice,i just answered the poll like everyone else.

Ive been with my partner for 7 years in total, and after around the 5 and half year mark we had abit of a tiff (Being only 18 at the time!) and decided to break up and see other people for a bit.
I was going on dates and meeting guys but not sleeping with any of them (I'd never slept with anyone apart from my ex and I was his first too) until one night when I slept with a guy i'd been meeting for a few weeks and Oh My God... what a disappointment!
I kept thinking, "have I been doing this wrong for all these years?! Cos it never feels like this"
Anyway cut a long story short, about a week later my ex got a new Girlfriend and he came by to collect some of his stuff from my house and we said all the usual pleasentries "How are you?" "What have you been up to?" and so on... We inevitably ended up on the fact that he was in a new relationship and he mentioned something about it being weird when he slept with her for the first time but then added on to the end of it "But i'm sure you'll find it ok when you get a new boyfriend and try it"
I blurted out, "I have tried it thanks, and it was crap", he replied "Oh you have a new boyfriend?" "Nope, don't need to be in a relationship just to have sex you know?"
So then because his male ego kicked in he said "So it was crap compaired to me then was it?" And I think I came up with some witty answer before he cut me off and we started having sex right then and there!
We slept with each other for around 5 months, no commitments (he finished his new girlfriend pretty much straight away) And we continued to meet other people and slept with them if we wished, until we both agreed that we wouldn't get anywhere by doing this (plus I do think its harder for girls to detach themselves when its sex with someone that you love, the thought of him touching another girl made me heave)
So we got back to together and lived happily ever after... The End!